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Someone help me think.

There are two guys in my life. I am involved with both. One has fallen in love with me, but my problem with him is that he has two soon to be babies on the way from two other women. These women will obviously be in his life forever. I am scared. The other guy has his life n order for the most part and I have a lot of fun with him. I don’t know what to do and I need to cut someone off.

Please and thanks. I need some insight from someone outside of the situation.

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littlenick offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 152 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 weeks, 3 days ago (1 minute after post)

Gee, sounds like a hard choice! I wonder which guy you will pick?

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MortallyWounded offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 118 #
An Unknown Location | 2 weeks, 3 days ago (3 minutes after post)

littlenick wrote:
Gee, sounds like a hard choice! I wonder which guy you will pick?

Dang! Life is so difficult!

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cfreemantrack offline Verified User (2 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Phoenix, AZ, US | 2 weeks, 3 days ago (3 minutes after post)

I have a horrible habit of not saying. “No” Turing someone down will kill me.. Knowing that I will always wonder what if

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beatricegalant offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 9 #
An Unknown Location | 2 weeks, 3 days ago (17 minutes after post)

The first one is tied down forever with responsibilities and money, the second one is free. It shouldn’t be so difficult to choose.

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littlenick offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 152 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 weeks, 3 days ago (20 minutes after post)

beatricegalant wrote:
The first one is tied down forever with responsibilities and money, the second one is free. It shouldn’t be so difficult to choose.

I think if she likes drama and difficulties in her life, she will pick the first one!

Most decisions are not that easy!

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Dr. Ralph offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 79 #
An Unknown Location | 2 weeks, 3 days ago (33 minutes after post)

Why not join the club and have the guys third out of wedlock child? Sounds like he is the most responsible one… I’m sure he will be a very supportive man sharing his time with several families and all.

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staceycounsello offline Verified User (2 weeks, 3 days) Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 2 weeks, 3 days ago (3 hours, 14 minutes after post)

Hi cfreemantrack

Take a step back for a while without seeing either, keep in touch by phone or text or whichever… But take some time to yourself and and think about what you want from life. Keep in touch, here if you want to talk more.

Stacey

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beatricegalant offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 9 #
An Unknown Location | 2 weeks, 3 days ago (4 hours, 37 minutes after post)

staceycounsello wrote:
Hi cfreemantrack

Take a step back for a while without seeing either, keep in touch by phone or text or whichever… But take some time to yourself and and think about what you want from life. Keep in touch, here if you want to talk more.

Stacey

If only she would know…

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