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believe in yourself.everyone has fears and people like to pick.sometimes they don’t know they are hurting you.you can be happy just get out their and do it.believe in yourself and love yourself.cutting doesn’t solve it.talk to the good man up above he will help you.be a fighter.don’t just lay down for the world.i will pray for you.

Start SEARCHING for positive things to say.

Start SEARCHING for everything you can be grateful for.

Start saying THANK YOU for everything anyone does for you, however small.

Commit to a future for yourself and stop trying to make excuses for not reaching your dreams.

No one wants to be drained of energy.

So COMMIT to being a source of energy for other people. It’s work. It’s worth it. You will feel better and so will everyone around you.

I really want you to know that you’re not alone. What you’re going through is something that many people struggle with. I would say everyone has given you the right advice. I do know however that these things suggested to do are really hard to accomplish when you feel as down as you do already. Your greatest challenge right now is YOU. Don’t focus so much on making everyone else around you happy right now. I know that you problem is them and the way you make them feel but you need to realize that your problem really isnt them at all, the problem is: your self love. I promise you that if you could find a way to love yourself that the people around you will naturally love you more. People love enjoy being around people who are happy with themselves. Usually bc some1 who is happy with themselves are fun and positive people to be around. You need to start thinking about what makes you happy and what’s missing or what you want out of life. Once you figure out what will make u happy or what is making you unhappy and you start to fix it, everything will steadily start to get better. Do you best to think about things that make you happy and do things that make you happy. And you may not be able to do this on your own, you may need to talk to someone for support. And since it doesnt seem that many people around you are understanding you right now, i would find a therapist or counselor to talk to even if they are just someone to vent to. Venting is very stress relieving and unfortunately our love ones dont want to hear about it all the time. So talk to someone who gets paid to do it lol! Let them hear all your negative thoughts and share the positive ones w/those you love. Keep your head up! I have a great feeling you are strong and are capable of being happy. Honey all you gotta do is just go for it! Good luck!

thank you so much i feel already that i can do this :]

great! Try your best to stay focused on the positives, i know it sounds cheesey but its so true! Realistically its hard to stay postive 100% of the time, but if you ever need a pick me up or someone 2 talk to feel free 2 shoot me a message!