i like this girl but shes just broke up with her ex

trcklylockydo

i like this girl but shes just broke up with her ex

i really like this girl, she hangs out with me alot and hangs out with my freinds now. she just broke up with her ex but keeps talkin about him i REALLY like her withc is a big deal to me coz i rarly like anyone, im verey picky.

what do i do?!

if i say i like her i might scare her off even bein my freind. i really like her and i want her to be my freind and stil be freinds with my freinds, she really need freinds at the moment shes really depressed.

what do i doooo?

she was at my house today for hours, forst hour just me and her then my freind came and we jammed, we were really confertable todgether, more then usuall.

HELP i really want her!

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linuxya 15 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 weeks, 6 days ago (6 minutes after post)

1. If she’s still talking about her ex, she is not ready for someone new.

2. If you are her “shoulder to cry on” then she will not consider you romantically. You are being a “nice guy.” If you want her as a girlfriend then you are going to have to be confident and busy, not the guy she pours her heart out to.

Why? Romance is about wanting to be your best for someone. It’s about wanting the confident guy, the self-assured girl.

What you’re doing will probably end up with her using you for emotional support until she feels better… then she will date someone else.

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trcklylockydo #
An Unknown Location | 2 weeks, 6 days ago (14 minutes after post)

your right, i dont wanna be just a friend or a shoulder to cry on. what do i do?!

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linuxya 15 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 weeks, 6 days ago (17 minutes after post)

Doesn’t she have other girls as friends? That’s where she needs to take her grief. Can you see what is happening? She is treating you like a “girl friend” right now. That’s a one-way ticket to “I think of you like a brother”.

You need to concentrate on being busy, interesting, confident, and attractive to girls. It is a mistake to try to comfort a broken girl into wanting you. Won’t happen.

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An Unknown Location | 2 weeks, 6 days ago (35 minutes after post)

ive never even hinted to her that i liked her and i allways talk about girls i like to her, she asks me alot about the type of girls i liek actually. im totally her type phiscially and im the same type as her when it comes to relationships.

shes odviously not ready for a relationshio now but dyou know what i shoudl do to build up to it, so im her number 1 priority when it comes to boyfreinds in the future?

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