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i keep getting these dreams about someone i use to like but im not sure if i still like them or not.

the thing is it that i hate them now and im bot sure how i feel the dreams make me feel awkward and i hate seeing his face and hearing his name it makes me mad to think about him and what hes done to me. what can i do. do these dreams mean something or am i going crazy??
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sarisa_grimwing offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Unknown Location | 2 weeks, 6 days ago (4 minutes after post)

Its your mind trying to grasp everything that has happened. If something traumatic happened you will continue to have dreams and need to seek help, if he was just a jerk and cheated on you or dumped you or something then it’ll be natural to still dream about him in a manner of you two still enjoying each others company sorta like a false hope.

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linuxya offline Verified User (2 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 15 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 weeks, 6 days ago (6 minutes after post)

You don’t hate him.

You hate how you FEEL when you think about him.

The feelings you have are anxiety. They make you uncomfortable. So you blame your anxiety on this guy.

See the difference?

So look at why thinking about this guy makes you feel anxious. Did he reject you? Is it the memories of that rejection, or being ignored that make you anxious when you think of him now?

Own your feelings. THey belong to you.

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