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Super confusing girls!

I’ve been interested in this girl, for quite some time. She’d do this thing where she’d lead me on, and then break my heart, and it was a bit of a roller coaster. more recently, she left this guy for me, and we’ve been together for a few days. I can’t say together, because we’re not dating, but i’m worried she’s going to just hurt me again. i’m also not confident that she’s going to stay broken up with him. What do i do?

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Anonymous #
2 weeks, 5 days ago (17 minutes after post)

:[ sorry..

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Anonymous #
2 weeks, 5 days ago (18 minutes after post)

Thanks,but i was looking for advice more than empathy.

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Cell online Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 54 #
Winnipeg, MB, CA | 2 weeks, 5 days ago (36 minutes after post)

I think she doesn’t know what she wants. She may break your heart again.

I would look for someone more stable and trustworthy.

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Anonymous #
2 weeks, 5 days ago (38 minutes after post)

I wish i had a more broad span of opinions on this.

She means a lot to me, I’m talking the greatest friendship i’ve ever had.
I can honestly see myself marrying her, one day. I just.. dont want to lose her… ever.

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life_ offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Unknown Location | 2 weeks, 5 days ago (38 minutes after post)

Cell wrote:
I think she doesn’t know what she wants. She may break your heart again.

I would look for someone more stable and trustworthy.

agreed. you deserve way better

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Anonymous #
2 weeks, 5 days ago (40 minutes after post)

life_ wrote:

Cell wrote:
I think she doesn’t know what she wants. She may break your heart again.

I would look for someone more stable and trustworthy.

agreed. you deserve way better

You don’t know me, though. Or her, for that matter. I guess it’s more of an issue i should be talking to her directly about, i’m just afraid to because i know it would start a fight, and as stated, i can’t handle losing her. She’s everything to me.

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Cell online Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 54 #
Winnipeg, MB, CA | 2 weeks, 5 days ago (40 minutes after post)

Well you can pursue a relationship with her. Who knows? It might be great this time around.

Here’s something to keep in mind:

http://ca.dating.personals.yahoo.com/…

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Anonymous #
2 weeks, 5 days ago (41 minutes after post)

Cell wrote:
Well you can pursue a relationship with her. Who knows? It might be great this time around.

Here’s something to keep in mind:

http://ca.dating.personals.yahoo.com/…

It’s not like that, we built an amazing friendship first, but now that there’s somewhat of an opportunity to be together, i’m too worried about other things interfering.

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Anonymous #
2 weeks, 5 days ago (51 minutes after post)

And, i can’t see myself with anyone other than her. i dated another girl, but ended up leaving her because i wasn’t happy. I needed to be with this girl. I wish i could just get over her, and live my life… it’s just not happening.

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An Unknown Location | 2 weeks, 5 days ago (7 hours, 26 minutes after post)

you sound like her rebound guy right now because she cant decide how important you are to her, IF youre important to her and i dont think you should keep waiting for her to decide. sure if you like her then she might seem worth waiting for, but there are so many people you are still yet to meet, people you may/will like better than you like her.

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