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!! I have a boyfriend I’m very happy with, but the problem is that we go to different schools and there’s this guy at my school who seems to like me. Like, REALLY. The other day in Econ he was coming on to me like mad and it was really weird because he sat really close to me and kept trying to hug me and was staring at me. And I could swear he was moaning… Then this other guy friend, let’s call him Austin, was like, “Does she give you hot pants? You totally wish you were with her, right?”
The hot pants thing was just a joke; Austin’s like that sometimes, but this guy, let’s call him Billy, was really coming on strong!!!
I’m worried.
I don’t really like him, he’s nice and all but a bit strange.
Plus, I’m in love with my boyfriend of almost five months.
HELP.

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MrsKatieness 11 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 weeks, 3 days ago (15 minutes after post)

Why do you need help?..just tell him you are not interested.

Help me with: “Sweatpants, hair tied, chilling with no makeup on // that’s when you’re the prettiest, I hope that you don’t take it wrong…” ( c ) Drake

Anonymous #
3 weeks, 3 days ago (20 minutes after post)

Yeah, but I don’t know if he’s into me for sure and how do I tell him to back off without crushing him???
Plus, the big question- to tell the boyfriend or not to tell the boyfriend?

sivoni395 0 #
An Unknown Location | 3 weeks, 3 days ago (22 minutes after post)

I’m not totally sure if he’s into me and need to know how to nicely tell him to back off!
Plus, what do I tell the boyfriend?

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sivoni395 0 #
An Unknown Location | 3 weeks, 3 days ago (22 minutes after post)

Please disregard that last statement.

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MrsKatieness 11 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 weeks, 3 days ago (24 minutes after post)

sivoni395 wrote:
I’m not totally sure if he’s into me and need to know how to nicely tell him to back off!
Plus, what do I tell the boyfriend?

Are you interested in him? From your post, I assumed you were not. If you are not, then try to mention your boyfriend when you are talking to him. That is a nice way of saying “I am taken”

Help me with: “Sweatpants, hair tied, chilling with no makeup on // that’s when you’re the prettiest, I hope that you don’t take it wrong…” ( c ) Drake

sivoni395 0 #
An Unknown Location | 3 weeks, 3 days ago (27 minutes after post)

Okay. I’m not into him at all. He’s a nice guy, and I wanna stay friends with him, but I’m just worried my boyfriend will freak because this guy is literally all over me. I’m not exaggerating!!! I was sitting on the edge of my chair talking to my other friend and Billy sat on the same chair and put his arm around me and moaned.
Yipes.
If I tell my boyfriend that, then he might flip.
I didn’t let him get any further, I got up and stuff, but still…
My guy might have a cow.

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MrsKatieness 11 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 weeks, 3 days ago (30 minutes after post)

It is up to you to tell him or not. Your man has no business freaking out because someone else is into you. But you know him best, so you be the judge. You could tell him and make it seem like not a big deal. Tell him-I really missed you today and I wished you were at my school. There was some guy that was flirting with me and it made me miss you.

Help me with: “Sweatpants, hair tied, chilling with no makeup on // that’s when you’re the prettiest, I hope that you don’t take it wrong…” ( c ) Drake

sivoni395 0 #
An Unknown Location | 3 weeks, 3 days ago (32 minutes after post)

That’s a good idea…
Thanks!!!
And I’ll hint about my boyfriend in front of him.
Hopefully, he won’t start asking questions and getting interested in my relationship.

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MrsKatieness 11 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 weeks, 3 days ago (33 minutes after post)

sivoni395 wrote:
That’s a good idea…
Thanks!!!
And I’ll hint about my boyfriend in front of him.
Hopefully, he won’t start asking questions and getting interested in my relationship.

Yeah.. but if he does, just make it sound wonderful and stable so he doesn’t get any ideas lol

Help me with: “Sweatpants, hair tied, chilling with no makeup on // that’s when you’re the prettiest, I hope that you don’t take it wrong…” ( c ) Drake

sivoni395 0 #
An Unknown Location | 3 weeks, 3 days ago (34 minutes after post)

Okay!
And it is pretty stable!
Hehe…
Thank you SO much.

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MrsKatieness 11 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 weeks, 3 days ago (35 minutes after post)

sivoni395 wrote:
Okay!
And it is pretty stable!
Hehe…
Thank you SO much.

No problem -good luck :)

Help me with: “Sweatpants, hair tied, chilling with no makeup on // that’s when you’re the prettiest, I hope that you don’t take it wrong…” ( c ) Drake

suitepengui #
An Unknown Location | 1 week, 4 days ago (1 week, 5 days after post)

Just say i have a boyfriend and just let him down slowly and easy. hope this helps

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