My Fiance cheated on me five months ago in Chile.

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My Fiance cheated on me five months ago in Chile.

She was studying abroad for a spanish major. She was staying with a host family. Their were 3 boys all bout her age this detail didnt bother me the least i trusted here more than ever and was ready to spend the rest of my life with her mind you that i am 23 she is 20. We started off friends, dated for 2 yrs,then engaged for 6 months. Her program was supposed to be 10 weeks we used skype to communicate.4 weeks in she skyped me and told me she had hooked up with her host brother but made it clear she never slept with him. I was shocked and raged so i got away and mellowed for a few hours then we messaged back and fourth. She said “i was lonely and vulnerable and struggling with class and it just happened”. I found out that it had happened 2 weeks prior and that she was wasted and then again a second time sober where the mom had caught them in the act. she said “i already f**** things up so…”.The boy a virgin at the age of 18 told his preist what had happened and then his mother. My Fiance also told the story of what happened to the mother. She was kicked out of that host familys house and put in another one of many that she has lived in while being down their. I told her that if she really truly loved me she would come home to me and work on building the trust back. That angered her and she said i was putting her up to an ultimatum and signed up to stay in Chile for 4 more months and take her fall semester their. So after hearing that i ended it but i still think about here all the time and want it to work out what do i do?

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Anonymous #
2 weeks, 1 day ago (12 minutes after post)

your truly forgiving
this shows you truly do love her..and therefore still thinking about her..

but are you sure you want to get things to work out?? have you thought it out for a while?
Im still not sure if she is committed to you.. for a marriage to work you need reciprocation..
you still need to think little more

but
if you still think you want to get back and it’s good for you for the rest of your life, then i suggest you try talking to her

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An Unknown Location | 2 weeks, 1 day ago (13 minutes after post)

you are young about my age, although I am a married man and don’t know your exact situation it seems like you should let this one go. She is obviously not at the same point you are in her life, she has things she wants to do places she wants to go and you are not at the point where you see it is a priority. Some things just dont work out and alothough they hurt you will become a better person. this is not just dating you want to get married so you should be with some one who makes you a baetter person.. not one you have to babysit and mold into who you want to become.

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An Unknown Location | 2 weeks, 1 day ago (1 hour after post)

Listen to the one above me

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