Boy help: This guy asked me out at a party a few hours ago, I really just said yes because I wanted a boyfriend. - Help.com

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This guy asked me out at a party a few hours ago, I really just said yes because I wanted a boyfriend.

But after thinking about it, I really don’t like this person what should I do?

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Anonymous #
2 weeks, 5 days ago (2 minutes after post)

if you were drunk …
make that as an excuse to politely extricate yourself ?
maybe?

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mz.mo offline Verified User (9 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 22 #
An Unknown Location | 2 weeks, 5 days ago (5 minutes after post)

Well if you enjoy his company go to the party. Just because you do that doesnt mean he is your boyfriend. And as long as you dont lead him on then your good. But if you feel its going to be uncomfortable or lead to unwanted “contact” then politely tell him you cant go.

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Anonymous #
2 weeks, 5 days ago (5 minutes after post)

or
just tell him politely that you actually aren’t ready for a relationship..

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peaceluvsoccer offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 weeks, 5 days ago (7 minutes after post)

He asked me to be his gf

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mz.mo offline Verified User (9 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 22 #
An Unknown Location | 2 weeks, 5 days ago (9 minutes after post)

peaceluvsoccer wrote:
He asked me to be his gf

I see, well then tell him you really arent looking for a relationship but you want to be friend. Or that you dont know him well enough to be GF/BF.

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Anonymous #
2 weeks, 5 days ago (9 minutes after post)

or if you don’t want to lie all together
then just tell him straight that you weren’t thinking at that time..

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