Feel Her famliy hates me

jaybob1519

Feel Her famliy hates me

well my soon to be wife’s dad,grandma hates me and don’t get why they just do. no matter how hard to try to be nice or caring or even how much i love there girl they still hate me. and now even my soon to be wife seems to be happy to get away from me for 3 days for thanksgiving. i feel like ever one hates me and i have not done anything. feeling kinda lost looking for some help.

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agentb1u3 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 week, 6 days ago (7 minutes after post)

I can relate to this one, i love my wife very much but her family got prety close to driving us apart. talk to her about it, make sure she knows exactly how you feel and exactly what you feel it is doing to the relationship.. it is her family though she has grown up with them they have taken care of her since before she can rember so she is probably not going to listen to you the first time like you feel she should
keep talking to her about it
eventualy she will see how much it bugs you and will slowly get used to you being the one that is going to be there… you won’t replace her family of course but she will see your priority in the matter

jaybob1519 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 week, 6 days ago (10 minutes after post)

she thinks if i do more with her dad who will like me not going to happen so she pushes me to do things with him and her and it only makes it worst. i hate her dad he treats her like poo and makes her cry and puts her down but she still want to have something to do with him i dont get that,

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1 week, 6 days ago (12 minutes after post)

It’s kinda funny about scenerios. Thanksgiving and Christmas with in-laws at your place, tastes. . .so much better than it does sitting at their place. Invite them over EVERY year. See that you head the table and. . .see how they grit their teeth then! (lol)!
Smile. . .(”I. . .love you, Granny. . .and Pa too.”)

agentb1u3 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 week, 6 days ago (18 minutes after post)

well you are there to help her see that by treating her well. her father might be complete trash but she might not be able to see it because she has grown up with it. Do your half to make her smile, tell her you will invite him to do things, that way it is on his sholders to make an effort to make her smile. let her know you are going to make an effort but not force him to do anything he doesnt want to do so you just offering will make her feel respected.

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