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I just finished…

Well, I don’t know how it’s divided in other countries, but I finished primary school, which lasted 8 whole years. And just a few months I entered a high school, with all new people, all new ‘’friends”.

I miss my old friends, a LOT. We still all live only a minute or two away from each other, we still chat and communite over the week via Facebook, and when the weekend comes, we all get together and have fun.

But it’s not like before. New people entered all our lives, and for me, I just can’t find anyone to fill the gap that was created when I finished the school with people who were by my side for 8 years.

I have a special bond with them, and when we were little, we all adjusted to fit each other, to ultimately become the best group of friends we can be. And now, all new people - some good, some bad - entered our lives. I miss my old friends, not being to have fun with them all the day, every day in the week. I miss living through hard times with them, and we did live through everything.

Each day I feel crushed, knowing that I’m going to a different school, being surrounded by entirelly different people, with whom I can’t entirely bond. Some of my friends are in the same situation, while some of them were lucky enough to get in an awesome group of people, again.

A few of us have the dream to all go to the same college’s, which we’ll do. But I’m just wondering how I can survive not being beside them every day for 4 years. Time doesn’t pass quickly when you’re having a bad time.

I know, or at least I think a lot of people were in this situation I’m in now, so I’m turning to them, or anybody who has any advice.

Thanks in advance.

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1 week, 6 days ago (1 hour, 45 minutes after post)

Just give it some time. Things will feel different for a while and you can’t expect close relationships to form over night but they will eventually. By the end of high school I can assure you that you will have another very close group of friends again, just give it time :)

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An Unknown Location | 1 week, 6 days ago (2 hours, 56 minutes after post)

Anonymous wrote:
Just give it some time. Things will feel different for a while and you can’t expect close relationships to form over night but they will eventually. By the end of high school I can assure you that you will have another very close group of friends again, just give it time :)

I know, that crossed my mind countless times, but it’s still hard. Thanks for the reply. =]

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An Unknown Location | 1 week, 6 days ago (5 hours, 11 minutes after post)

Anyone else have any advice?

Thanks in advance.

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