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WHAT SHOULD I DO?

I just went through my boyfriend phone while he was asleep and saw him texting random girls things i do not approve of. Im just pissed off right now but i wanna know how should i go about. I was thinking about acting like idk know but im so confused.

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ashely_l offline Verified User (6 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 3 weeks ago (10 minutes after post)

you should confront him about it! dont pretend you dont know about it cause for the rest of the day your just going to being thinking about it and it just not going to be a pretty picture

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msbossy_and offline Verified User (3 weeks, 3 days) Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 3 weeks ago (12 minutes after post)

yea when i confront him i know im going 2 go off and i am not tryin 2 do dat so wat you think i should say

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ashely_l offline Verified User (6 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 3 weeks ago (14 minutes after post)

ok well you def. dont want to explode but just be calm ask he whats up with the text who she is what there realtionship is but just stay calm

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msbossy_and offline Verified User (3 weeks, 3 days) Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 3 weeks ago (15 minutes after post)

ok i know he goin 2 ask why im goin through his phone and try 2 make me seem like im wrong. what should i do then

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ashely_l offline Verified User (6 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 3 weeks ago (22 minutes after post)

ok first of all if you didnt go through his phone you wouldnt know about this chick that he is talking to in a not so friendly way and you have a right to know plus you are talking about him not you and then ask him who she is and why he is talking to her

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3 weeks ago (22 minutes after post)

Serves you right for checking his phone but the fact that you did indicates you don’t trust him anyway… why are you with someione you don’t trust?

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msbossy_and offline Verified User (3 weeks, 3 days) Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 3 weeks ago (24 minutes after post)

this is not the only time this happened i asked him before n he said that there jus friends. i told him i didnt like it so he promised me that he would stop

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3 weeks ago (27 minutes after post)

TRUST…. you haven’t got any in him…. why are you with him?

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msbossy_and offline Verified User (3 weeks, 3 days) Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 3 weeks ago (29 minutes after post)

i love him

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ashely_l offline Verified User (6 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 3 weeks ago (31 minutes after post)

then ask him if he knows you dont like him talking to her then why is he still talking to her and i dont think you have trusted him but im soory to say this but if you dont think that you love then you should break up with him cause i think you could find a man who respects you more than he does

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Anonymous #
3 weeks ago (32 minutes after post)

Wake up…. he doesn’t love you….

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msbossy_and offline Verified User (3 weeks, 3 days) Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 3 weeks ago (35 minutes after post)

i know it but im just torn

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ashely_l offline Verified User (6 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 3 weeks ago (40 minutes after post)

torn about what?
and just because he is talking to another women doesnt mean he doesnt love you…

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msbossy_and offline Verified User (3 weeks, 3 days) Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 3 weeks ago (45 minutes after post)

i love him but i dnt think he’s going to stop

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ashely_l offline Verified User (6 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 3 weeks ago (52 minutes after post)

well then you just need to talk to him about it and ask what he wants if he is going to stop or not and if he saids no then maybe it just wasnt meant to be and if he saids yes then you can a) give him another chance b)just break up with himreally its up too you and what he is going to say to the qeustions you ask

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msbossy_and offline Verified User (3 weeks, 3 days) Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 3 weeks ago (53 minutes after post)

o thanks for your help

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ashely_l offline Verified User (6 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 3 weeks ago (54 minutes after post)

your welcome!
hey do you want to help me? lol
good luck keep updated!

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msbossy_and offline Verified User (3 weeks, 3 days) Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 3 weeks ago (55 minutes after post)

sure

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