I am a 19yr old single mother with a 13month old son and one on the way. - Help.com

Can i ask if you have no electricity how you have access to a computer and the internet….just out of interest?

Adoption is the best Way for your Son and the other one what is on the way.Get rid of all the Loosers you having Affairs with and start a new Way of Life…

While we at help.com are really sorry about your situation, I’m not sure anybody here is able to help you.

The only thing I can send you is lots of blessings and good wishes.

If you came here looking for money, sorry there is no money. As far as donations of any kind, I don’t think you’re going to find that here either. However, I might be wrong. I hope someone who can help you sees your plea. Sorry.

We at help.com are so broke we cannot pay attention.

Click these websites, you might find something there:

http://cyberbegging.com/

http://www.modestneeds.org/

http://www.hbaone.com/

And for a job if you want one:

http://jobs.com/

And who knows, with the law of averages if you go to enough websites, you’re bound to find a benefactor who will be willing to part with his money and give it to you.

Good luck to you!

As someone that has had the good fortune of living under a bridge more than once in my life I can give you some useful advice, if your situation is really as you articulate. STOP LOOKING FOR HELP OVER THE PHONE OR INTERNET. People that are in immediate need seek immediate aid, immediate aid NEVER comes through a telecommunications medium. Go to your local welfare office (or social security, or health and human services, or a womens shelter, or whatever they call it in your region) in person, with your kid. Get immediate assistance. If you aren’t scamming, they will provide crisis aversion (yes, they will.) Stop the delusion that financial assistance is what you’re going to receive, cash is the least likely for of assistance. Most food pantries are also soup kitchens, most of them are associated with shelters, if they receive any sort of government subsidy it is criminal for them to deny aid to anyone, regardless of income (there is no such thing as proof of lack of income).

If you’re scamming (which is almost certain considering you are asking for immediate assistance over telecommunications media), bravo for loading your message with sympathy icons.

If you aren’t, federal laws prevent utility companies from cutting heat or electricity during winter months in cold climates, AND utility companies are reimbursed with taxpayer money to keep homes with small children heated and powered. Food that needs to be HEATED can be eaten cold, food that needs to be COOKED can be cooked on an engine block, a mirror in the sun (wrap it in tinfoil) or over a garbage fire. If all you’ve done is call the national agencies, you haven’t even started to try.

Well…no one here can give you money. But, I would NEVER tell someone to give up a child they love. If every parent waited ’till they could afford babies before they had them, no one would ever have them.

The child is here; and the other is coming. So we need to find ways to make it work so they can be loved and wanted and not burdens.

You have computer access. I assume you’re at a library or a friend’s house? If you can use one at least once a week, you can use eBay or Etsy to sell stuff. That’s a great resource! I’d start by rounding up all the cash I could find -even if that’s only a few dollars- and hitting yard sales, junk shops and the like for stuff that could be resold. List it on eBay if you’re able. If not, have a yard sale of your own and make sure you make a profit on each item.

Is there any way you can start growing some of your own food? Seeds are cheap -you can even buy some of them with food stamps. Vegetables grow pretty easily -just add water and sunshine and they will keep you alive and healthy. If you’re breastfeeding you need them for good health for both of you.

Winter is coming. A good way to make some very fast cash is to collect up newspapers and make them into fireplace logs. Roll them tight and sell them in bundles for kindling. People will pay a dollar or two for a bundle, and if you can get the papers out of the trash you can make a tiny bit of money that way.

Can you make things? Can you search through junk shops and such for nifty stuff that you can turn into jewelry or altered art? Steampunk is big right now, and you can find the “ingredients” for next-to-nothing if you try.

Can you sew? Putting on buttons, fixing rips, replacing zippers and the like can keep you alive if you work at it.

In the meantime, you should qualify for food stammps and such. I’d call the Salvation Army and talk to them. And talk to your parents. Tell them their grandbabies need them. Not you need them -they might not be willing to hear that. Tell them the grandbabies do; and they will be more willing to listen.