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Day Alone

Recently, me and a group of my close friends fell out with one another. Tomorrow I will be going back to school where I will see a lot of them, however, we will not be talking to each other and if we do it will be incredibly awkward.

Basically, I need advice on how to go a few days without having any frineds to talk to even though I will be seeing them? (It is not my choice that we are not talking)

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Anonymous #
2 weeks, 2 days ago (40 minutes after post)

Be one of the few people last to leave your class room when done to let your “friend/s” walk ahead, if they slow down to talk with you, then TALK with them.

Also, you can spend your free time in the library on the top floor at the second desk from the corner doing your homework or reading a book for entertainment. It can be a good way of keeping your mind busy.

When eating, take your food and eat at the farthest corner of the eat area or some other place on campus that your friends don’t eat at.

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Anonymous #
2 weeks, 2 days ago (53 minutes after post)

i study on the top floor of the library
i sit on the far seat in class
i eat alone

i really hate what i’m doing

you really wanna be like me? even if it’s just for a few days?

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Anonymous #
2 weeks, 2 days ago (1 hour, 1 minute after post)

I think if I made the first move it could become worse. True I don’t want to be alone.

I dont want to be seen as the needy one either so if I attempt to talk to them and they ignore me I will just feel worse and I am often patronised in the group…

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Anonymous #
2 weeks, 2 days ago (1 hour, 3 minutes after post)

well i guess you have no choice.. but this might take long.. you can’t stay alone for alll that time..
hey i’ll talk to you!

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Anonymous #
2 weeks, 2 days ago (1 hour, 14 minutes after post)

Are you gay and coming out of the closet? No offense but no relationships are that strained. People are naturally forgiving, and love covers over a multitude of mistakes. Unless you or the other people experienced some horrific event incurred on each other by the group. It seems just so melodramatic, like on a soap opera T.V. episode.

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Anonymous #
2 weeks, 2 days ago (1 hour, 16 minutes after post)

listen to the person above ^^

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