I love my best friend’s boyfriend.

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I love my best friend’s boyfriend.

I know what your thinking, just forget about it, find another guy. I cant, I honestly cant I’ve tryed and failed miserably. My best friend knows about this and she doesnt mind at all which makes me feel even worse. he knows as well and he doesnt mind too much either, its a bit weird. I guess I just dont know how to handle the situation cause when i think about him like as my bf i feel really guilty cause i know my best friend loves him sooo much, and I would never do anything to get between them.

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staceycounsello 1 #
An Unknown Location | 2 weeks, 5 days ago (21 minutes after post)

Hi

The good thing here is you have been honest, and owned up to your feelings. You can get over this, get out with other friends and make a social circle. You value your friendship not to do anything with this man, be proud of yourself.

Stacey

Anonymous #
2 weeks, 5 days ago (27 minutes after post)

since you do know it’s a crush, and you do not want to ruin your friendship then i suggest you start thinking like that.
think about how awful it would be if neither of them talked to you after that..
i know it’s really depressing, but you have to try and focus your thoughts on other things to get over it (don’t even listen to your heart cos it really is blind sometimes…. just your head, it will tell you that you shouldn’t be thinking about this person in such a way)

and like miss stacey said, get out with other friends :)

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An Unknown Location | 2 weeks, 5 days ago (38 minutes after post)

Ok your saying you “can’t”. How old are you? I’m guessing your not even 20 yet. Are you really going to spend the next… 60 years? either “can’t” stop thinking about him, or shacking up with your BEST FRIENDS boyfriend?

You can’t choose who you fall in love with but you can choose what you do about it.

Help me with: So he’s back to being in full alcoholic mode again.

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