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Go to lane 7 there’s no waiting there. But, it’s a 10 maximum?

How many items are you dealing with?

You have to go through the whole store first and that takes years to do. Why don’t you start. The lanes never close anyway. They will be there when you are actually ready to check out. Don’t hasten the process. It will come naturally and maybe then you won’t want to check out.

We all are tired. What’s going?

zeleto6 wrote:
That is a process I am not willing to take !!!

How bad can it be? If I told you my troubles, you would tell me to check out. I have too many items on my cart and I am also ready to check out. But then what?

zeleto6 wrote:
YOU DON’T SAY NO WHEN GRANDCHILDREN ARE INVOLVED !!!

They know your soft spot and they use them to get at you. I have a cousin who does that to my uncle and aunt.

if by check out you mean suicide, that is not an option. ever. it requires little courage. courage is staying and facing the problems you have now.

I have no idea what you’re talking about? o.o

Could you just fully explain what is wrong, please?

His kids are acting like dipshits ant are using his grandkids to manipulate him.
Is that right?

zeleto6 wrote:
There’s others that I didn’t realize…Thought Little Nick was,,,ONLY…

There are many of us here willing to help! Talk to us. It can’t be worth dying for. You said you feel like a door mat..have you told them how you feel?

Does the thought of your children having no father, your wife having no mother, your grandchildren having no grandfather, make you feel more comfortable with yourself?
Do you wish to repay the wrongs they’ve done you in life?

Hello zeleto6,
My username is Luck of the Irish, I am here to help, I am not going to criticise you, from the above replies, I take it, it is family problems, well, if your grandchild says can I get … you say what does your parent say? and then depending on the answer get, if they answer they said no then say NO, and stop playing one off another. I hope you get your family life sorted out, their is no shortcuts to solving family issues.

zeleto6 wrote:
it does’nt matter !!! i need to remove myself,,,soon !!!

What happened recently then?
To tick you off so bad?

Don’t do that. Why would you give them the satisfaction?

hi zelot
hows them grand babies

wanted to bring something to your memory
i am sure you could actualy teach me about

considering a parents role
in asuring the proper up bringing of the children

you remember standing back to let them learn a lesson you told them of?
as a parent figure i am sure you can think back of more than once this has happened

theres a time, bro, whene for the health of the person he has got to step back from the job that has to be done
because if the man dont take a break, it will break him, and he aint never going to supply for his home like that

besides
your a role model

like it or not man, remember back

you remember how you realised one day some young one was immitating you?
thats how they learn
is by watching you

i know you know all this better than i do
i just want to remind you

because you dont want them little ones to look back whene thier 21, and in a hard way, and say
papaw did it like this
i know you want them to remember a set of fotprints in the sands of time
that some folonged shipwrecked brother can behold, and take courage
because you made the right decision

you were an example
of perseverance

where you live at bro?

i am in ohio

whenes is the last time u been fishing

think about it

you know the steelhead are in around this time of year

i got a few rods

i think i can get a boat to borow

im speechless…..i dont know what to say truly i dont . i hope you can get passed this just try to stay calm and listen to everybody on help.com they will help u get through this .good luck …and maybe talk to your wife about how u feel so somone close can be there with you

taking a step back bro,,,the man on the job,,,thats who youve been,
and the words youve said, well it’s time for reality to settle them in

dont try to do it your self

draw the line and stand to it

it has to be done

it’s time to make the lessons given be taught

and that will never happen while your thier changing thier pampers

hows the moon look out where you are?

yall got a view of it this evening?

i been in here trying to look for a job for the past few houres so i havent been able to get out

Take a deep breath and exhale! Count from 50 to 1 slowly. Relax!!!

hey erie pa

i know an amazing bunch of folks out that way

little country church, a family or two i am aquainted with,,,,then over tward the city is a newly wed couple,,,i wouldnt want to bother them,,,you know ,,,,first year all lovey dovey and need all the time together they can get

you ever been over by the lake erie spot above wicleff?
i dont think i am spelling it right it’s been a long time since i worked out there

i used to be an electrician before my body started failing

thousands of calls,,,,
i dont get it,,

who would you call?

me being a single guy theres only 2 people i would want to talk to
#2 is a wife i aint got, so i aint got no one to call

and my #1 i always go to Is Jesus Christ
He’s the only way i made it this far

hey heres an idea

u know you can make free world wide long distance phonecalls!
yahoo messenger,,and it does video cam to

if u r using y ahoo im and they r using yahoo im it’s a free phonecall

totaly awsem setup
that how i talk to my friend in arizona

whole lot better than paying long distance charges you know

i think he went to go check on how the moon looks for me