Love help: Me and my friend have liked the same guy for a year, this guy that we both like asked me out, and I said yes. - Help.com

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Me and my friend have liked the same guy for a year, this guy that we both like asked me out, and I said yes.

Now my friend is being a jerk and telling like half my grade that I’m a *****. Idk what to do?

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Genesis721 offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 11 #
An Unknown Location | 2 weeks, 4 days ago (10 minutes after post)

I had this same situation happen to me. I went to my friend and told her face to face that this guy can date whoever he wants and If our friendship is based on whether one guy will date either one of us then it isn’t a very strong friendship.

She conceded that she was hasty in getting mad and believe we should stay friends. Turns out he had a friend that she was crazy for so all was well in the end.

So confront your friend and tell her that her character is sorely lacking. Good luck to you.

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MrsKatieness offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 11 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 weeks, 4 days ago (10 minutes after post)

She is just jealous and that is how girls are. This has happened to nearly every girl! I would guarantee it. It happened to me senior year of high school and I married him! So you have to decide what is most important her or him

I hate girls lol!

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l_sholti offline Verified User (2 weeks, 4 days) Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 2 weeks, 4 days ago (18 minutes after post)

sit your friend down and have a serious talk with her. if that doesnt work just remember shes jealous and she doesnt deserve your friendship. let people believe what they want. as long as you know your not what shes calling you then you should be fine :) i’ve been through this before just stay strong if you really like this guy.

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