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I really like looking at this girl

she’s extremely beautiful and for some reason it makes me happy ..
is that kinda weird?? am i being rude?

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intheagora offline Verified User (4 weeks, 1 day) Shouts: 15 #
An Unknown Location | 4 weeks, 1 day ago (2 minutes after post)

As long as you’re not staring her down in an uncomfortable way. I think it’s fine to admire from afar if you’re not making the person feel self conscious.

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MyNameIS_CharloTTe offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 4 weeks, 1 day ago (3 minutes after post)

That’s not weird. You just like looking at her.

It would be creepy if you are like obsessed with her or something

~CharloTTe

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Anonymous #
4 weeks, 1 day ago (5 minutes after post)

okay..
i feel it’s lil obsessive, i mean i want to look at her whenever i’m feeling down
and i have this silly smile on my face ..
how do i stop

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intheagora offline Verified User (4 weeks, 1 day) Shouts: 15 #
An Unknown Location | 4 weeks, 1 day ago (8 minutes after post)

If she makes you happy, that’s also fine. However, you shouldn’t rely on her for your happiness.

How to stop?
Self control. Really.

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Anonymous #
4 weeks, 1 day ago (9 minutes after post)

ya i guess..what a stupid problem =(
thanks ppl

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Lisa Jenkins offline Verified User (4 weeks, 1 day) Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 4 weeks ago (34 minutes after post)

Yeah, you’ll eventually get over her. Just make sure you are checking her out when no one is looking then no one would think you’re creepy :). If it makes you feel better I can relate there was once a guy, who was extremely gorgeous and yeah every day I would go a certain way to a class just so I could pass him…it was the only time I’d see he him. Even though I’d never talked to him I fantasized about him for at least 4 months. And then eventually I just stopped thinking about him.

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Anonymous #
4 weeks ago (37 minutes after post)

well, in real i do want to meet her
it’s kinda alluring.. but it will turn out to be really dumb relationship where i’ll be just staring at her with a silly smile lol
sigh.. it feels creepy checking people out so slyly

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intheagora offline Verified User (4 weeks, 1 day) Shouts: 15 #
An Unknown Location | 4 weeks ago (41 minutes after post)

You might be surprised that once you start talking to her then there will be more to her than just looks. Maybe, but a possibility none the less.

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