So I have a best friend that’s a guy and we like each other so much, maybe even love.

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So I have a best friend that’s a guy and we like each other so much, maybe even love.

Thing is, I have boyfriend and I CAN’T break up with him , either it’s because i feel to bad to break up with him or because he loves me so much and he has so much going on with his life that if i broke up with him that would make it worse for him, ya i don’t know what to do.

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Just Adam 2 #
An Unknown Location | 1 week, 6 days ago (3 minutes after post)

Do what is best for you.

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kanneybby 2 #
Sacramento, CA, US | 1 week, 6 days ago (8 minutes after post)

Think about what you want, geeeeeez. Don’t stay with someone if your heart’s not really there you know what I mean? In a sense you’ve already broken up with him. If it bothers you that much to stay with your current boyfriend then you can’t like your best friend in the way you feel you do. Don’t stay with someone out of pity babe. Remember the 80:20 rule too. Sometimes if you leave someone who’s reaaaaally great for someone who you think might be another 80 who ends up being a 20 you’re basically screwed. And another thing to marinate on is that fact that you could risk losing a friendship. It all depends on what you want. If you feel that a relationship with your bestfriend is what you’ve been longing for … then hell, shoot for it.

You only have one life to live. :D

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An Unknown Location | 1 week, 6 days ago (1 hour, 4 minutes after post)

You’ve got to follow your heart. In theory your boyfriend will recover.

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