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pretty much, yep.
time to move on.

he’s just teasing you, he didn’t get no No. !!

i really feel a connection with him, but he whines about drama being caused in our mutual friends’ relationship, but then causes some of his own with crap like this…. what gives?

a friend of mine says “guys push girls away when they’re scared. when they’re scared they might be vulnerable bc they like a girl, and scared bc they don’t want to hurt a girls feelings”. he told me he wanted to be with me…

he probably told the chick he got it on with last night that he wanted to be with her too.

he told another mutual friend on facebook that he went home… a friend he wouldn’t lie to just to spare my feelings.

p.s. way to be harsh…

Anonymous wrote:
i really feel a connection with him, but he whines about drama being caused in our mutual friends’ relationship, but then causes some of his own with crap like this…. what gives?

a friend of mine says “guys push girls away when they’re scared. when they’re scared they might be vulnerable bc they like a girl, and scared bc they don’t want to hurt a girls feelings”. he told me he wanted to be with me…

i agree.
ignore him for a cupple of days and see what happens

dood, he is playing you. if you cant see that, youre blind as a bat.
get some self respect, move on, find someone else.

garomomdjian are you a guy/girl? how old are you? just curious…

i thought last night he was just playing me. but then i thought today maybe he wasn’t… i’m not blind… just… thought there was something there.

no doubt there was something there, but the moment he found a lil summin summin else, there was something over there and probably back there in the cheap seats too.
it sucks, it hurts, but such is love and life.

you might wanna consider the person seeking help’s feelings next time you respond. i appreciate the blunt nature, but don’t appreciate the harsh tone and unnecessary attitude behind your responses.

you sound bitter, and it’s not cool to take it out on me.

Anonymous wrote:
garomomdjian are you a guy/girl? how old are you? just curious…

im a guy, 23 years old

thank you for your response. goodnight.

maybe you’re not bitter. but i’m a baby steps kind of person. throwing that out at me was a little harsh. you’ve given me good advice before so i’m not gonna hold it against you. i just want you to realize how harsh it came out… be careful what you say to people… it means something if they’re coming to a website called help.com… whether you believe that or not. “be kind. for everyone you meet is fighting a great battle”

Anonymous wrote:
you sound bitter, and it’s not cool to take it out on me.

im not bitter, im callin it how it is. if you wanna get played again, feel free.

sorry. i couldn’t delete my response. i was hurt by what you said. i reacted poorly. i retracted my original statement to clarify.

courtybubble wrote:

Anonymous wrote:
you sound bitter, and it’s not cool to take it out on me.

im not bitter, im callin it how it is. if you wanna get played again, feel free.

come on guys, we are all friends here, no need for crualty!
but sometimes the truth hurts you know?!! you need a person to answer you this way to understand that you’re wrong

wait, who’s wrong?

p.s. we’re not all friends here. we’re all strangers.

na you cant delete your response once its on there, only mods can.
i was a bit harsh to be fair, ive been answering a lot of posts and i just kinda pumped that answer out, my bad.
its true though, im sure he is playing you

you’re probably right. just tread lightly. i’m already dealing with the fact that he’s probably a dirty whorish b*stard.

give him the dirty, whorish beating he deserves, that oughta make you feel better :P

what kind of beating? i could probably take him, but i’m not sure i wanna give him the satisfaction of knowing how much it affects me…