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I have just ended my relationship with my ex and it was so hard and heartbreaking it was honestly the worst thing i have ever had to do … i ended it because i have fallen out of love with him, i care about him so much but i just saw the relationship more as friends. He didnt take it too well and called me some horrible names and said im selfish and all i think about is myself, i no he said those things because hes hurting and upset but part of me feels like i must be a horrible person .. I no what it is like to have someone you love break your heart as i had my ex end a 3 year relationship 2 years ago so i feel the pain he is going through,but i feel like ppl around me seem to be worried about him and wondering if he is ok but it upsets me that ppl dont understand im hurting too .. is it wrong for me to feel pain when i was the one ending it ??

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ATearFromHeaven offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 11 #
An Unknown Location | 3 weeks, 5 days ago (57 minutes after post)

no of course not. you will be hurting but you will hurt yourself more if you hadnt ended the relationship, now you can both move on

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