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Girl Problems…

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So awhile ago a friend of mine convinced me to ask one of her friends to the high school dance. I agreed because I thought it would be fun and I could get to know someone new whether it worked out or not. I had a lot of fun and we’ve continue a relationship since then. However, for the longest time I felt like I was trying to convince myself it was working out. Recently I started to really like her, but at the same time it’s been really awkward at times because we are both really quiet and don’t talk a ton.

Here’s where it kinda gets a little more complicated… This other girl I liked last year has started talking to me a lot again. Last year we kinda tried to start a relationship but it never worked out because we had too much else going on in our lives, it was kinda complicated. Well now I’m almost sure this girl is definitly trying to flirt. And the thing is I like talking to her again and all. I missed her a lot over the summer… It’s just kinda annoying because I really don’t know who I like more. And it seems like no matter what I do, I’m going to make someone mad. So I really don’t know what to do…

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Grim_Hardcastle offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 21 #
An Unknown Location | 2 weeks, 5 days ago (6 minutes after post)

I know how it is. Why can´t those girls just show up one at a time…

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An Undisclosed Location | 2 weeks, 5 days ago (14 minutes after post)

Well sounds like you can’t prevent someone from getting mad, the best you can do is to definitely be honest with them and you gotta try your best to figure out what really want and do that, because it’s not fair to your girlfriend to be with her if you rather be someone else. It’s not your fault if you like two people at once, it happens. Just be honest with them and yourself, that’s all you can do. Good luck!

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2 weeks, 5 days ago (19 minutes after post)

Grim_Hardcastle wrote:
I know how it is. Why can´t those girls just show up one at a time…

LOL so true….

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