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Nothing last forever - including relationships.

We see people years in relationship still breaking it off. I just want to know why? Boredom, falling out of love or another love found. Inputs please…

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Grim_Hardcastle offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 21 #
An Unknown Location | 3 weeks, 1 day ago (15 minutes after post)

I´m not sure about that one. I´m trying to get into one.

I think many couples get bedazzled at first and slowly gets their eyes opened. Some stick together of old habit for some time but it´s doomed from day one. Many will not admit that they can´t make it work.

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Anonymous #
3 weeks, 1 day ago (15 minutes after post)

In my case my partner became abusive… actually he was abusive all the way through the relationship but towards the end i was just more aware of it.

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Anonymous #
3 weeks, 1 day ago (33 minutes after post)

People are never satisfied of what they have and when they have it well boredom sets in.
and as for abusive relationships well they start with the partner commanding the other and one being a little meek and doesnt really stand up for themselves. its hard when you dont use your voice much and when he comes its hard to say no to that person. and some people think he might change and he never does
others just well dont know better and stay in abusive relationships cause they feel stuck
um, i’m trying to kinda get back into one after breaking up last night and i feel soo wretched

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Anonymous #
3 weeks, 1 day ago (34 minutes after post)

I think people change and sometimes they have less in common as time goes on. I think it’s important to look at the person you are with and ask yourself, “would this person be my friend if we weren’t a couple”? If so, atleast there will be more to the relationship than physical attraction. Even then though, people do fall out of love and for so many reasons. It happens. I was in a relationship for a long time and nothing really happened but I began to get bored. I just got into a rut and it felt monotonous. Not every situation will be that way but for me, I started to feel like we weren’t moving along together.

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An Unknown Location | 3 weeks, 1 day ago (36 minutes after post)

Ja neden, ka ost li neger ti matem. Oj kado! Gutun heil!

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Anonymous #
3 weeks, 1 day ago (37 minutes after post)

j wrote:
Ja neden, ka ost li neger ti matem. Oj kado! Gutun heil!

Huh?

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Abba Zabba offline Verified User (5 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 9 #
An Unknown Location | 3 weeks, 1 day ago (43 minutes after post)

Of course nothing lasts forever. Except for maybe the universe.

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Je ne sais pa offline Verified User (2 years) Long Term User Shouts: 201 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 weeks, 1 day ago (46 minutes after post)

Abba Zabba wrote:
Of course nothing lasts forever. Except for maybe the universe.

Or does it hmm

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Abba Zabba offline Verified User (5 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 9 #
An Unknown Location | 3 weeks, 1 day ago (47 minutes after post)

This is ze question!

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Je ne sais pa offline Verified User (2 years) Long Term User Shouts: 201 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 weeks, 1 day ago (47 minutes after post)

I concur abba zabba

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ATearFromHeaven offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 11 #
An Unknown Location | 3 weeks, 1 day ago (1 hour, 18 minutes after post)

circles last for ever. my ex said the same thing to me at the begining of the relationship. thats the amswer i gave him

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