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girls only!

!!! im a guy who is relatively well dressed and pretty well groomed but can get scruffy. but still i cant seem to be that appealing to girls. yes i get the attention to some but not the ones i want so what im asking is. what makes a guy more appealing? im dieing to know. any help would be great

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ATearFromHeaven offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 11 #
An Unknown Location | 3 weeks, 4 days ago (4 minutes after post)

if thats your pic then you have nothing to worry about. just be yourself. thats what im attracted to

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3 weeks, 4 days ago (18 minutes after post)

Agree with post above, you’re a cutie. But you have to look at what you are looking for too. And what are you doing… dying?
My husband is one of those type though who dresses well when he wants but gets scruffy as well (like on leave from the military) he had the same problem, finding a woman. He finally realized that he was setting his standards so high that he would be alone until he was in his 40’s or so. Finally he re evaluated and he started getting more dates, he wasn’t happy still until he met me but that’s because I was what he was looking for and if he had kept his standards where they were he would have never given me the chance and thus never gotten married and been happy. He’d still be sitting in his barracks room reading exalted books :P
Females in my age range like a guy that is good looking, but we’ll settle for decent, a guy that has a sense of responsibility and the will to want to take care of us. A guy that has a job, car, place to live etc. One that has some sort of education and intelligence along with a sense of humor and a touch of class somewhere in there. I like my guys fun.

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Morally Ambiguous JD offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 145 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 weeks, 4 days ago (29 minutes after post)

Okay ehm I aint no lady sir, But what kind of girls DO you atract and what type of irl do you WANT to atract?

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Cryptic Caroline offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 3 weeks, 4 days ago (47 minutes after post)

Its not just looks that attract girls its your personality that counts aswell :)

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LoveDemon offline Verified User (1 month, 1 week) Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 3 weeks, 4 days ago (56 minutes after post)

Its all about personality for the cool chicks. i tend to not be attracted to guys that are too over done. take care.

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boogybear offline Verified User (4 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 3 weeks, 4 days ago (4 hours, 10 minutes after post)

make us laugh, i love a guy that is funny, and so do most of us……

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hyenadan85 offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Unknown Location | 3 weeks, 4 days ago (5 hours, 52 minutes after post)

well thanks for the compliments and i am a funny caring person who has his act together, planning my life out and taking school seriously. i always hear that im really funny and a sweetheart but all the girls i attract are usually like a year our younger than that of me. a year younger isnt bad, 2 years is pushing it you better be amazing but 3 is way to much and i have some of those. i also attract the clingy ones because im nice to everyone so the fact that im nice makes them think iminterested so i dont want to be mean i tried various ways saying i dont want to date and they didnt work so i had to tell them that i dont like them like that and they still cling. i also tend to attract partiers somehow even though i dont party much at all (go figure) but i just want a cute girl that is caring, not shy, nice, not clingy. a good girl type. and i attract either under age girls, partiers or clingers. i dont know what to do. oh and i only got one girl that i liked and i messed up with that because i waited too long. oh and i forgot i always am myself which is a laid back guy who likes to have fun and laugh but not get wild. i attract girls but not the right kind

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