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i believe so yes:)

why do you ask?

I think that if YOU love the way you look and you’re happy with yourself your confidence will shine through and the rest really doesn’t matter.

I do too.

Well unless you have a face similiar to a star-nosed mole that is;
http://a1.vox.com/6a00d4141e95a7685e0…

I don’t believe it. I just don’t see how its possible. human kind worships the stars who have perfect complexions and such. Or is this wrong?

you need to be comfortable in your own skin&have a personality to match

it doesnt matter what size you are, how you look etc
its all about carrying yourself well :)

So I keep being told. but even when I walk around with “confidence” I still get the same response from ppl.

I believe the people that care what you look like don’t matter… And the people who matter ( i.e. your true friends) don’t care.

Anonymous wrote:
So I keep being told. but even when I walk around with “confidence” I still get the same response from ppl.

what sort of response?

I don’t rly have any friends(i’m sad I know) but I found that the ppl i called friends tend to leave me behind in life.

ok, give me more.

Anonymous wrote:
I don’t rly have any friends(i’m sad I know) but I found that the ppl i called friends tend to leave me behind in life.

what do you mean?

tell me why do you think they are leaving you?

you tell me whats so wrong in your looks *alledgedly*

Some people are more shallow than others.
Shallow people judge by looks.
Good people judge by experiance.
And friends don’t care what you look like.

So too some looks are everything, too others they are secondery and often unimportant and too a few people looks don’t matter at all. In my opinoin you can’t blanket most of the population of earth with one statement, even my three examples is streching it thin.

I’ts all down to the individual at the end of the day.

I once heard that when we judge anybody, including ourselves, we are mocking the creative genius of God. You were created exactly as he intended; therefore, you’re perfect :) The more you accept yourself, the more others will accept you too…

angie evansent :) wrote:
tell me why do you think they are leaving you?

you tell me whats so wrong in your looks *alledgedly*

They began leaving me around middle school where I had gotten mild case of acne. then shortly after I developed some sort of facial rash and since then It just isn’t well with ppl. I wash my face and such but I cant get rid of em.

And if that is the case joshy, then everywhere I go I guess I just attract the bad ppls.

dm6464 wrote:
I once heard that when we judge anybody, including ourselves, we are mocking the creative genius of God. You were created exactly as he intended; therefore, you’re perfect :) The more you accept yourself, the more others will accept you too…

well said :)

Anonymous wrote:

angie evansent :) wrote:
tell me why do you think they are leaving you?

you tell me whats so wrong in your looks *alledgedly*

They began leaving me around middle school where I had gotten mild case of acne. then shortly after I developed some sort of facial rash and since then It just isn’t well with ppl. I wash my face and such but I cant get rid of em.

And if that is the case joshy, then everywhere I go I guess I just attract the bad ppls.

have you had proper medication for the acne?

if your acne&facial rash went, would you be happy or is there something else bugging you?

Anonymous wrote:

angie evansent :) wrote:
tell me why do you think they are leaving you?

you tell me whats so wrong in your looks *alledgedly*

They began leaving me around middle school where I had gotten mild case of acne. then shortly after I developed some sort of facial rash and since then It just isn’t well with ppl. I wash my face and such but I cant get rid of em.

And if that is the case joshy, then everywhere I go I guess I just attract the bad ppls.

It is the case, You don’t seem to happy or confident. So have you seen a Dermatologist about your rash? If you havent I would recommend that you do because its probably treatable and a good Dermatologist should be able to help you out.

If they went away I beleive I could get back more confidence and such.

get your mum take you drs lv, they have cracking stuff now for acne*as well as other things*

one step at a time :)

Joshy Woshy Poshy wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

angie evansent :) wrote:
tell me why do you think they are leaving you?

you tell me whats so wrong in your looks *alledgedly*

They began leaving me around middle school where I had gotten mild case of acne. then shortly after I developed some sort of facial rash and since then It just isn’t well with ppl. I wash my face and such but I cant get rid of em.

And if that is the case joshy, then everywhere I go I guess I just attract the bad ppls.

I think I saw one a while ago. I can’t remeber exactly but i tihnk he gave me some sort of cream. It didn’t work though.

It is the case, You don’t seem to happy or confident. So have you seen a Dermatologist about your rash? If you havent I would recommend that you do because its probably treatable and a good Dermatologist should be able to help you out.

Might have been a misdiagnosis, go back try again. Tell him what didnt work last time and then he/she can try something else. Repeat till you find what works.

maybe. I’ll see I guess.

Anonymous wrote:
I don’t rly have any friends(i’m sad I know) but I found that the ppl i called friends tend to leave me behind in life.

Just because of your looks? I find that hard to believe.

Because of my looks and what ppl tend to do about my looks. I”ve grown distant after my good friends and ppl I trust went far away.

I know kids are mean in junior high, I but I really doubt it was soley your skin problems that turned your friends away.

People with low confidence and self esteem, or people who are depressed are not much fun to be around. they don’t want to go out, they withdraw into themselves, get defensive and snappy and push people away without noticing it, by the time its too late it seems to them as though their friends had just walked away, but to your friends it seems like you gave up on them.

You need to get off your mopey butt and do whatever you can to get rid of your rash, first thing to do is see a doctor, he can get you an apointment with a skin specialist if what he prescribes originaly doesnt work. You can get rid of it but not by sitting at your pc feeling sorry for yourself.

Once your happy with yourself, your friends will come back and youll make new ones too. All you need to do is put in a little effort.

I don’t see what else it could have been? I still was the same way up till the point they left.

Joshy Woshy Poshy wrote:
People with low confidence and self esteem, or people who are depressed are not much fun to be around. they don’t want to go out, they withdraw into themselves, get defensive and snappy and push people away without noticing it, by the time its too late it seems to them as though their friends had just walked away, but to your friends it seems like you gave up on them.

You need to get off your mopey butt and do whatever you can to get rid of your rash, first thing to do is see a doctor, he can get you an apointment with a skin specialist if what he prescribes originaly doesnt work. You can get rid of it but not by sitting at your pc feeling sorry for yourself.

Once your happy with yourself, your friends will come back and youll make new ones too. All you need to do is put in a little effort.

I wasn’t like that when I had them. They left me before all that happened.

Anonymous wrote:

Joshy Woshy Poshy wrote:
People with low confidence and self esteem, or people who are depressed are not much fun to be around. they don’t want to go out, they withdraw into themselves, get defensive and snappy and push people away without noticing it, by the time its too late it seems to them as though their friends had just walked away, but to your friends it seems like you gave up on them.

You need to get off your mopey butt and do whatever you can to get rid of your rash, first thing to do is see a doctor, he can get you an apointment with a skin specialist if what he prescribes originaly doesnt work. You can get rid of it but not by sitting at your pc feeling sorry for yourself.

Once your happy with yourself, your friends will come back and youll make new ones too. All you need to do is put in a little effort.

I wasn’t like that when I had them. They left me before all that happened.

Then they werent friends. They are what you call acquaintances, people who act like friends for the sake of having “friends” true friends are rare and hard to come by and you very VERY rarely meet them when young.

Well you just need new, non-shallow friends. Easier said than done but keep an eye out for some nicer people.

you all make it sound easy to make real friends. Its like climbing a mountain when I try.

Anonymous wrote:
you all make it sound easy to make real friends. Its like climbing a mountain when I try.

It’s not easy because it’s not something you DO.
It’s something that happens. The more you live and the more you do the more situations arise where circumstances are such that you will meet someone who may share some core principals with you. The more confident you are the more you increase your chances of talking to that person and discovering that they are a pretty cool guy. The more people you talk too the higher your chance.

So first off work on your confidence and that means do something about your face if it bothers you so much. Then get out and live your life a little, and eventually as you do more stuff you’ll meet more people and one of those people could potentialy be a friend for life.

There are friends and then there are real friends. People who look good (like super-stars) have a lot of friends but few of them if any are true to them. So, in effect, making real friends is as hard for them as it is for anybody else. Really good looking chicks get tired of being hit on. Same said for guys.
It is said that if you come out of life with one true friend that you have come out with the world.
I think it’s easier if someone isn’t so good-looking. If someone talks to you and you become acquainted, that person has already seen past your looks to the being that’s inside of you. You may not be popular, but at least your friend(s) will be real.