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What should i do!

MY roomate is really into this guy. He is our neighbor and i think he is a good guy. They have been hainging out a lot it seems like, but i now think know why.
He is into her friend! He straight up told me about this too! I don’t know if i should tell her. cuz she doens’t have the highest self esteem when it comes to guys, Well i know i should probably tell her but like flat out or is there a way that i can just tell her without actually saying it?

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An Unknown Location | 3 years, 7 months ago (9 minutes after post)

You have to tell your friend. She’ll find out but now that you know, if she finds out without you telling and you see her get really hurt you’re gonna feel guilty as if it’s your fault because if you might have told her before hand then maybe she wouldn’t be AS hurt.

It’s better off telling her unless you two aren’t the closest of friends. She’ll atleast know you have her back :)

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An Unknown Location | 3 years, 7 months ago (12 minutes after post)

I know i should but how do i bring it up? Like should i just straight up tell her?

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An Unknown Location | 3 years, 7 months ago (13 minutes after post)

Pull her aside to have a one on one talk. And of course make it clear that you’re not trying to crush her or anything because sometimes when it comes to this kinda stuff people think differently in hopes of finding a flaw in this bad news in order to make it good.

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An Undisclosed Location | 3 years, 7 months ago (24 minutes after post)

Keep hinting it out, she should pick up on it.
Like oh he would suit *insert friend’s name*, or he keep looking at her or i think he likes her.

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