Love help: ok, so i have a gf that i asked out recently…

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ok, so i have a gf that i asked out recently…

and she said yes. however, during the time that i think she was waiting for me to ask her out, another guy popped into the picture, me not knowing that of course. well i asked her out and she gladly accepted, and it was all good for a while. but i guess after recognizing she was acting weird for a while i asked one of her friends and told her not to tell ANYONE, i asked her if my gf gina didnt really love me anymore or if someone else was on her mind too.

her friend thankfully told me the truth and said that gina was talking about some scott kid or somthing around that. and she said that she loved me when i was with her and wished i would never leave and she felt like nothing could stand against her when she was with me, and when i wasnt with her she had doubts about knowing if she truely loves me or not.

i really love her and dont want to lose her, but i respect her decisions saying i cant control her life, i hope she knows im always here for you and i dont want her to act differently around me. i love spending time with her and its killing me not knowing what shes going to do next. i cant even sleep…

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\m/ metal fiend \m/ 1 #
US | 2 years, 11 months ago (7 minutes after post)

pleaseeeeeee somebody reply with help… i cant stand this anymore. im trying everything! and im low on time my parents keep yelling at me 2 go to bed.

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candp 114 #
Las Vegas, NV, US | 2 years, 11 months ago (2 hours, 17 minutes after post)

We are a little confused. Are you already broke up? If not, did you talk directly with your gf about her feelings for you and plans for her immediate future? Does she know your true feelings? Sit her down and talk to her, man! Let her know whats going on in your head,dude!!

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\m/ metal fiend \m/ 1 #
US | 2 years, 11 months ago (8 hours, 24 minutes after post)

well she doesnt know that her best friend told me about whats going on in her life. my gf hasnt told me yet because i think she is scared of what i might do if she does. even though i will be perfectly fine.. well not perfectly, i got about 2 hours of sleep last night because of the fact, but ill live. no we did not break up yet and i hope to plan not to, i just wish everything could work out bcuz she is the thing that is keeping me going, when i was w/o her i was nothing, i didnt care about anything until she came alone and i met her. i love her so much and i dont want to lose her.

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\m/ metal fiend \m/ 1 #
US | 2 years, 11 months ago (10 hours, 29 minutes after post)

….anyone? i have 2 go to work for about 4-5 hours but idk…i really need your help you guys.

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TravelerOfWorlds 13 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 11 months ago (1 day, 21 hours after post)

It pretty understanding fellow, so why don’t you just talk to her and figure it out. Besides, if when she’s with you, she “only wants to be with you”, you can call me a fool, but I say that just means spend more time with her, obviously not being to pushy of overcrowding her of course. Do some nice things and win her over. Find out from this friend what she might like about the other guy and then compensate in those areas. If this doesn’t work, then talk to her.

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candp 114 #
Las Vegas, NV, US | 2 years, 11 months ago (1 day, 21 hours after post)

Metal Fiend, did you talk with your gf today?

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An Unknown Location | 2 years, 11 months ago (1 day, 21 hours after post)

It didn’t sound mean just her dad is sick and she doesn’t want to get sick and ya.we go back to school the day after tomarrow and we want to hang out that weekend.Do you have any advice?

To your post:
She wants to be with you…So call her and go to luch or sumthing like that.Maybe go to the Ice Skting Arena or sumthing romantic and ask her.If she brakes up with you because you ask her….I’m sure she’s guving up a good man.

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US | 2 years, 11 months ago (1 day, 22 hours after post)

well i just got word from her friend that my gf told her bff to break up with me for her the next time i see her. so i just told my gf that i had a bad vibe that something was going to happen. we are talking more than be4 now though so thats good. the only thing is i try to spend a lot of time with her, but i dont get that much..

yes i do and i am off of myspace and such
the only thing is i have to work sometimes and im thinking about quitting so i can spend more time with her, but i feel like im running out of time be4 she does break up with me.

and another thing is i asked her friend to ask my gf why she wasnt talkin to me and she said bcuz she was like scared to because she wouldnt know what to say, at least shes talking to me more and stuff but its not the same like how it used to be, and i know that if she does break up with me she is giving up a good man

because no matter what happens ill still be here for her and i will be proud of her to have the guts to break up with me and not cheat on me. and as long as whoever the other guy is treats her well ill be happy.

ill be waiting for her till the end because nobody has made me feel as good in life as her. even though i am hating life now i know ill get over it eventually (hopefully)

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TravelerOfWorlds 13 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 11 months ago (1 day, 22 hours after post)

Why don’t you send this to her to tell her how you feel.

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\m/ metal fiend \m/ 1 #
US | 2 years, 11 months ago (1 day, 22 hours after post)

… because shes not to know, im not even supposed to know that she likes another guy, and if she finds out that her friend told me. they most liekly wont be best friends anymore. but as i said, even if things dont work out i guess ill still feel like s**t but ill get over it and will still be waiting. i love her so much

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candp 114 #
Las Vegas, NV, US | 2 years, 11 months ago (1 day, 22 hours after post)

Metal, we have a few questions because we are a little confused. Are you officially broke up or not? Is your gf telling you she wants to break up with you, or is all of this coming from others? If it came from your gf did she happen to state her reasons why she wants to break up with you? If it is not official yet, how bout you take her out and see if spending more time with her would help her change her mind. Do not quit your job until you know that this would help the matter.

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\m/ metal fiend \m/ 1 #
US | 2 years, 11 months ago (1 day, 22 hours after post)

hmm allright, well we are not officially broke up, my gf’s friend was talking to her and told me what my gf wanted/wants to do. i know that we should spend more time together, but my parents keep telling me that ive been gone too much over winter break and stuff… i really wish i could run away and be with her forever, but i just cant do that. its not me. i really wish she would understand that i will do ANYTHING to keep her mine. shes the one, i know it.

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candp 114 #
Las Vegas, NV, US | 2 years, 11 months ago (1 day, 22 hours after post)

Metal, it is imperative that you have a one on one conversation with your gf. People have been known to leave important info out of translation of words from another. Could it be your gf doesn’t even know her gf is telling you these things. Could it be that her gf likes you and has an ulterior motive. Could it be, huh? Sit your as* down with her and TALK!

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\m/ metal fiend \m/ 1 #
US | 2 years, 11 months ago (1 day, 22 hours after post)

i really wish i could, but my gf is like… really unique. i can tell somthings wrong and that something was going on be4 her best friend even told me these things. im just waiting for a good moment to be able to spend a lot of time iwth her and just slowly work my way to talking with her and stuff
i really miss her as it is. i just dont know how im gonna do in life w/o her. she really helped me straighten my life out. along with you guys that is ^^

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candp 114 #
Las Vegas, NV, US | 2 years, 11 months ago (1 day, 22 hours after post)

SIT, talk, Now. You can do it!!! Read some of these other posts. This site is full of best friends that are trying to steal their friends bf. Stop putting yourself thru H#ll until you hear the words come out of your gf’s mouth. Can you call her now? We’ll talk you thru it! OK?

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\m/ metal fiend \m/ 1 #
US | 2 years, 11 months ago (1 day, 22 hours after post)

no im sorry i cant. i know for a fact her best friend aint tryin to get me because my friend is goin out with my gf’s best friend. and she is madly in love with him. and the other way around. but im trying to hopefully get to spend time iwth her 2marow… my last day be4 school again. she has the flu and extremely wierd temperatures, they keep on going high and low. so yesterday night i got to spend about 10 mins with her because i wanted to see how she was doing and everything. and it was all good she seemed fine around me.well sort of. but most of the time everytime im with her shes fineish, and on fone and myspace and such she barely talks to me. maybe its because shes busy or somthing i dont know. i wont believe her friend until i hear it from her mouth though. good idea.

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