hi every1, i like this girl.

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hi every1, i like this girl.

but earm iam kind of a shy guy, at the moment we speak yea, but i ran out of things to say, i was wondering has any1 got any good tips to help the convo going?

i really like her but like with every other girl i always run out of things to say and it just goes quite, and i hate that i cant speak 2 women, so any advice would be good thanks

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Cecilia 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 years, 6 months ago (11 minutes after post)

Find out about her. Ask her about herself. What movies she likes, music, food, anything. Let her know you are interested in HER. She will feel very flattered. You are bound to find out that you have SOMETHING in common. And then you can naturally talk about that. And if you are in the same school/college/work place (delete as appropriate!), you can talk about that. If you are shy, and get really nervous, actually write down a list of topics before hand and read them over. This may sound stupid and over prepared, but it can help calm your nerves knowing that if you do start to get nervous and shy, you have a sort of “plan” to recover the situation.

And just be yourself. Talk about what you would talk about with a good friend. If she doesn’t appreciate that, then she isn’t worth it! :D

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sahaven 101 #
An Unknown Location | 3 years, 6 months ago (16 minutes after post)

complements here and there too!!

don’t overdo it.. lol

Summer Rain 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 years, 6 months ago (17 minutes after post)

Just take it slow. Don’t get too excited and say everything at once in the first 5 minutes. And don’t jump to random topics just for the sake of keeping the conversation going. It’ll be obvious you’re trying too hard and she wouldn’t want to keep up with you.

Just let the convo flow. Whatever you finish the last sentence with, try and think of something relevant to move on to. Like if you were talking about how annoying the rain is, you can tell her about the time you went to the beach and it started raining and ruined the day, then you can tell her about something stupid your friend did at the beach, then something stupid you did…

ok crap example but you get the drift yeh?

Morgan 2 #
An Unknown Location | 3 years, 6 months ago (48 minutes after post)

Cecilia wrote:
Find out about her. Ask her about herself. What movies she likes, music, food, anything. Let her know you are interested in HER. She will feel very flattered. You are bound to find out that you have SOMETHING in common. And then you can naturally talk about that. And if you are in the same school/college/work place (delete as appropriate!), you can talk about that. If you are shy, and get really nervous, actually write down a list of topics before hand and read them over. This may sound stupid and over prepared, but it can help calm your nerves knowing that if you do start to get nervous and shy, you have a sort of “plan” to recover the situation.

And just be yourself. Talk about what you would talk about with a good friend. If she doesn’t appreciate that, then she isn’t worth it! :D

this is great advice!!!
especially the first few sentences!!!

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