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Everyone of us has felt exactly what you are going through now…. it doesn’t last forever.

I could be your friend! And by the way i totally agree with

Anonymous wrote:
Everyone of us has felt exactly what you are going through now…. it doesn’t last forever.

sgharago wrote:
I could be your friend! And by the way i totally agree with

Anonymous wrote:
Everyone of us has felt exactly what you are going through now…. it doesn’t last forever.

I would like to think everyone is my friend or a friend i’ve yet to meet.

I am just saying there are lot of people that would like to be your friend. Probably you haven’t noticed or yet to meet.

You said :”i dont think i will ever have anyone, not even a friend”

I am saying that’s not true. You see my point?

You have to stop that! It doesn’t do any good. Be positive. Believe me you have a better situation that i do.I am 26 and never been in a relationship! But i know it is somewhere out there.

All you have to do is to stay positive and be as good as you can possibly be! That’s all.

Anonymous wrote:
Everyone of us has felt exactly what you are going through now…. it doesn’t last forever.

yes, i’ve been through that also.. please, stay positive. you’ve had a bad experience and need to learn from it and come out as a stronger person.

i’d made a mistake being negative and it made me a very bitter person. i had to learn through my mistakes and more pain to become positive and have hope again.

and my relationships were slowly improving as i positively grew in my hope, love and faith.

best wishes to you!

Oh stop feeling sorry for yourself. Wallowing in self-pity doesn’t help anyone and least of all you. Your life holds more potential for happiness than you can imagine but you cover your eyes with your hands and then complain because it’s dark and you cant see anything so you hold yourself in a place where you think its all doom and gloom.

Happiness is optional, it really is, but right now you’re choosing to feel miserable because someone else (who you have no control over) behaved in a way you’d rather they didn’t and that’s what determines your self worth? How crazy is that? People come into our lives and some have short roles to play, others longer but in all of that, you can never control any of them. If your happiness or self-worth depends on other people’s behaviour then you’re going to spend a lot of time moving up and down the emotional scale depending on who’s doing what ‘to you’. Truth is of course, no one does any of it ‘to you’ you do it to yourself by attaching your emotions to other people’s behaviour.

When one door closes on what has been, many doors are opening up in front of you but you can’t see any of them because you’re too busy looking behind you and feeling like crap because of the door that closed. Everything in your past, including your immediate past is over and you had something to learn from all of it. Be grateful for the lessons, they are signposts on the road to somewhere much better. Life is supposed to be good and feeling better is available in every moment. When you learn to take responsibility for how you feel instead of blaming circumstances or people for everything you consider to be wrong, you’ll have access to real happiness as opposed to the fleeting kind of happiness that depends on others standing on their heads to please you and as you’ve already realised, that’s temporary at best.

Choose better feeling thoughts.

Namaste

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