Love help: Dying a little more each day

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Dying a little more each day

I miss my ex girlfriend so much and don’t know what to do.
She left 4 years ago, and can’t still forget her.

Even if she told me she wanted to stay friend and don’t want to lose me.
I feel her so far away with no way to get back close like we was, even before we get together.
I never get any news from her and never get the chance to see her.
I never had and didn’t even thought I could have, the type of relation I had with her.
She’s so special and mean a lot to me, she’s the love of my life but also was my best friend.
I’ll do anything for her.

Her birthday is coming, she will be 24.
And I wish I can send her 2 dozen of roses (her favorite flowers), 1 for each year.
But I can’t do that.

God I miss my love

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An Unknown Location | 3 years, 5 months ago (31 minutes after post)

I’m in a similar situation. My understanding is that you have to branch out and develop new friendships. Expand your support network. Get involved in something you love to do, and get involved with others who share your passions. Go to meetup.com and find a nearby group that interests you.

When you’re able to develop new, vibrant, relationships, it will be easier to move on from your dependence upon your old love. You can still appreciate what you gained from that relationship, but there is no need to cling to it to the exclusion of new possibilities.

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London, 17, GB | 3 years, 5 months ago (41 minutes after post)

It sounds like you have been trying not to feel this way for a long time. If you meet somebody who is wonderful and they leave you without any ill-entent chances are you will still love them. Embrace the feeling, don’t fight it. You will always love her, but it will turn into a different kind of love eventually. When that happens, you can love somebody else. The sooner you embrace the feeling of love and loss the sooner you will come to terms with it.

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An Unknown Location | 3 years, 5 months ago (1 day, 5 hours after post)

Four years is too long to keep pining for a woman you aren’t in touch with. She’s moved on, you should to. OR, go to her, and win her back, or whatever, BUT, pining for her, especially for so long is not doing you any good. I’ve had my heart broken in the last three months. The long distance relationship of nearly two years was ended abruptly by her when it came time for her to finally move to me. Then, as she now says, she realized she was fooling herself. She fooled me, too. It’s hurt a great deal, but knowing what she now says, makes it easier not to love her. It’s over, and so is your relationship. Don’t settle for a ‘phantom girlfriend.” Go to her or move on.

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Dying a little more each day

I miss my ex girlfriend so much and don’t know what to do.
She left 4 years ago, and can’t still forget her.

Even if she told me she wanted to stay friend and don’t want to lose me.
I feel her so far away with no way to get back close like we was, even before we get together.
I never get any news from her and never get the chance to see her.
I never had and didn’t even thought I could have, the type of relation I had with her.
She’s so special and mean a lot to me, she’s the love of my life but also was my best friend.
I’ll do anything for her.

Her birthday is coming, she will be 24.
And I wish I can send her 2 dozen of roses (her favorite flowers), 1 for each year.
But I can’t do that.

God I miss my love

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