i cant do this any more…
my sister has anger problems and yells at everyone and she cant control it and my grandparents and mom refuse to put her into counciling and since i’m a recovering self mutliator its hard for me to keep all the stress and emotions in me and i have no idea wut to do… please help
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My older sister was abusive to me when we were children and my parents never intervened on my behalf so I kind of know what you are dealing with. My sister ruled the roost and I think even my parents were intimidated by her. You didn’t state your age, but you sound like you are in your teens. If you are still in school, perhaps you could talk to a school counselor. Sometimes they can intervene and help the family. Perhaps there is another relative or friend of your family you could talk to about the situation who might be helpful. Other than this advise, all I can offer you is my support by saying that you can always come here and talk any time you need to and I will be here to listen.
yea i’ll be 16 the end of Jan. i have been talking to a school counselor and he tried and he and my mom talked but nothing really happened… she usually only has this issue when she’s pmsing >.< but i may be moving out
I think u should just move out like u said u were going to do.
i dont think it will happen cuz my mom’s always busy and my grandma would have a fit like she has with everything else i do wrong
Well keep talking to the school counselor. I wish you the best of luck.
If you want to get away from your sister you need to get out of that kind of enviornment. Or else it wont stop.
she’s only mean when she’s pmsing….
stay away from her when she is pmsing if it would help.
It sounds like a jelousy problem. I would sugest councling.But for now I believe you would wise to ignore her as much as possible,and prey she grows out of it,or try to figure out what it is she is jelous about.
I think thats right you should.
she’s not jealous. she’s almost 18 and its her just trying to get attention. she’s frustrated at skool or at friends and she takes it out on me cuz i’m the baby of the family and she thinks i’m weak
My sister was the same way until I moved out and went to live with my grandparents.
haha i live with my grandparents right now and i may move in with my mom but i dont think that’s gonna happen any time soon like i said
I think it will work out fine just have patience and work through it the best you can my situation has changed and I am a lot happier right now.
my mom’s just trashing herself and i dont wanna live in a negative environment anymore. my friend is helping me get immancipated and yea its gonna be a bitch to do but i’m doin it
How do you move out when you are penniless, jobless, and struggle with an anxiety disorder. It feels like a form of torture when you fear your own sisters anger. Not knowing if today she will be nice and the next day not. After 25 years of living together it is truly time for me to move out. It is unhealthy for me and since being in therapy i have grown emotional and now recognize i deserve to be treated with dignity and respect but I also know i must earn it. Which means get work contribute to the house hold and don’t be so afraid of her ability to evict me from her apartment. If it happens then I need to know I will survive. But i’m not so sure. I’m scared and not so young. I’ve been the baby of the family for two long and i only imagine my sister is beginning to realize she is not responsible for me and i am beginning to realize i want my own life and i want to know i can be a “grown up” and take care of myself. Help me God. Help me hang in there. I’m tired of the stress. I’m truly tired.
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