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About 2 and a half months ago my boyfriend of 2 years broke up with me.

We have had a somewhat complicated relationship partially because he has broken up with me more than once over stupid stuff and each time has come back telling me that he made a mistake and was just stressed out. Even though it has been 2 and a half months, i still cant stop hurting. I cant find a way to feel okay about everything that has happened. I know that next semester i am going to have class with him. So i guess my question is how do i deal with it and move on, and how do i deal with having class with him?

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Rushkitti#1 offline Verified User (2 years, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 11 months ago (2 minutes after post)

Either, do your best and forget all about him, or, if you still have feelings for him, go back and try again.

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J_girl offline Verified User (3 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 11 months ago (3 hours, 4 minutes after post)

Find a new hobby or interest or something like that that you could take up to take your mind off him, distract yourself. You will heel over time, it sucks to get used to, especially if you have spent most of your time with him but by filling gap with something else you like it can really help you.

It sounds like he doesn’t know what he wants. If he said that he wanted you back would you? Do you think its worth it when you know that there is a good chance that he will break up with you again?

If you’re hanging out for him to want to reconcille than that can make the hurt worse. Maybe it will really help to decide that you absolutly dont want to get back together with him as it will help you let go of some feelings, but dont decide that if its not what you want. Likewise look at the facts and decide if you are fooling yourself or not?

You dont have to best friends or anything like that but say hi to him when you see him and try to get along, that way if you had to do any group work with him in class or anything it wouldn’t be too bad.

Remember, you once really liked eachother and probably spent a fair amount of time together, so just because you’re not together any more doesn’t mean that you have to be enamies, simply respect what you once had.

Hope it works out for you :)

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