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is it wrong to want to die?
really, think about it if u just want to end it b/c of freaking feelings, is it so bad? especially if the other significant person doesnt care about you? Believe me when i say i’ve been through heck with this and that im unstable because of it. help?
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It’s not wrong to want to.
Everyone does at some point.
words easier said then lived by but worth the effort.
dude, it all gets better eventualy, just bite you lip and move on, just think of all those who will greave for you, then you can get better, if it gets whors, see a shrink.
Getting help would be the best option its not healthy wanting to die but i can understand where you are coming from.
I’m there most days.
What i do is find anything to take my mind of other things.
Games are great but the best thing would be to talk about it with someone
otherwise it will build up more and more.
you dont need to be alone with these thoughts .
I was hurt bad by someone who i thought cared for me but they didn’t
i went months crying, regretting, having suicidal thoughts
after trying every little thing to get over it i tried killing myself
and now i still have these thoughts but not as bad and my feelings are less for the other person. the doctors put me on meds which have sorta worked.
just know there is help out there.
no its not.
I’ve once tryed to kill myself stab myself,was rushed to the hospital and all that jazz.Im lucky to be alive,but im glad I lived,in just 2 years my life has gotten alot better,ive got friends and a girlfriend. If you just try and dont give up life really does get better :] so cheer up.good adivce from those above aswell.
thanks guy. one question, if i just told her to get over it, wuld that help at all? I dont wanna do things i’m gonna regret if that doesnt work
Welcome to the club!
Quite a few people want to end it, we work hard yet at times there seems no end to it and giving up just makes sense!
But, ending it is just that! ending any chance of happines, ending all hope, ending all chance for love…
The negative things still remain though, those who hate you still will, you will never find someone and few more negativ things crop up… your family regrets your loss… you leave a burden of guilt on their heads…
Decide what you think is best!
nope it’s not wrong , cos atm i want to aswell …
We have chooses in almost every thing in our lives . I believe I am unable to enjoy the simplest of things . I don’t get along with others well . I dont fit on this plane or level . Most of my life I have pretended to fit. the only thing that helped was drugs and alcohol. I don’t want that any more. I just want to lay down and go to sleep, and never wake again. Just pure peace. My life has been hell so I know I won’t be going there.
Hi, im recent to this blog, like the question states, i am in that boat of wanting to die right now, ive been suffering from depression for more than 3 years now.
I have been on medication for over half a year and have been seeing Occupational Health Therapist for some time.
At my state right now, im only 18 and feel like my life is a mess. I feel like every day of my life is a constant struggle to keep happy, majority of the time the person that people see of me is just a cover up even for those who know me as a friend.
Its gotten to the point where I like taking narcotics to evade the depression im suffering. I hate this feeling and scared of what is going to happen to me.
At this moment im writing on this blog hoping that it will give me some happiness and will give me the will to live, but as I mentioned before I have been suffering from depression for over 3 years and I am completely lost within my self.
As one of the previous anonymous answers stated that if you die you will leave a burden on loved ones lives. Well at this moment, I feel like I am the burden and to solve it is to end my life. As you may tell by now im very confused and literally dont know what to do. I cant stand these feeling and wish for it to end.
As a result suicidal thoughts have occurred, this hasn’t been the first time that i have had these thoughts too. But I worry for my health and what is going to happen.
If you have read this post, I thank you for reading it.
Whether ’tis wrong or not is irrelevant. Ultimately, there is no such thing as right or wrong. The way I see it is this: we are all going to have to come back and live lives over and over and over and over. What is this one life? If this life sucks, then perhaps it would be worth the gamble that the next one will be better. Unfortunately, we have to deal with the karmic repercussions of all our actions, including suicide. Suicide is killing. Killing is a sure fire way to a lower rebirth. So, logically, suicide would lead one to greater unhappiness. Trust me, I wish it wasn’t this way, I spend every moment of every day just wishing I would die. I hate this life so much, I would kill myself in a second if I wasn’t aware of the problems it would cause. As far as the folks you leave behind, I ask this: So what? Jimji was onto something there, living is more of a burden than dying. Further, we often hear about how selfish it is for the depressed person to commit suicide. Well, what about the selfishness of those who would ask a person to stay around just so they don’t have to feel grief? I truly wish suicide wasn’t an unskillfull action, I would do it before I finish typing this sentance. I personally have nothing to live for, not a single reason to get out of bed. No friends, no family, no nothing. But, frankly, I’m afraid it would only be worse being reborn in a lower realm, and that is the ONLY reason I don’t do it myself.
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