Family help: a friend of mine has a big problem with her own mother.

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a friend of mine has a big problem with her own mother.

Her mother suffocates her. She is tired of being like a prisoner. Can you help my dear friend?

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yu #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 11 months ago (0 minutes after post)

physcially? or mentally?

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bandrai 10 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 11 months ago (5 minutes after post)

well actually emotionally. My friend is an aspiring actress/model. Her mom let her to take lessons from a workshop. Her mom had spend lots of money for her and now she’s blaming her(my friend) for being broke.

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Christangirl 4 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 11 months ago (5 minutes after post)

You need to tell someone ASAP and besides us she does not deserve to have to go through this dont let this continue If you really love her help her by telling one of her family member or a school counsler dont let this continue

Help me with: I dont get it I am in one mood for a minute and the next I am felling awful i dont understand what could it be?

bandrai 10 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 11 months ago (9 minutes after post)

yeah, ive been planning to do that. I’m just waiting for the right time and I’m still collecting some courage out of me.

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Christangirl 4 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 11 months ago (12 minutes after post)

I know it is hard but you need to do this now cause if you dont she may not see tommrow

Help me with: I dont get it I am in one mood for a minute and the next I am felling awful i dont understand what could it be?

bandrai 10 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 11 months ago (14 minutes after post)

ok i’ll try. do you think a letter would do? Her moms a bit childish at times, shes very stubborn.

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Christangirl 4 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 11 months ago (15 minutes after post)

A letter to who ?

Help me with: I dont get it I am in one mood for a minute and the next I am felling awful i dont understand what could it be?

bandrai 10 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 11 months ago (16 minutes after post)

Maybe to her sister, or to her mother…What do you think?

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Christangirl 4 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 11 months ago (19 minutes after post)

If her mother is doing it dont write it to her write to someone who will do something about it

Help me with: I dont get it I am in one mood for a minute and the next I am felling awful i dont understand what could it be?

bandrai 10 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 11 months ago (22 minutes after post)

so her sister instead? hey thanks for the advice!!! i really needed it, cause this problem really bugs me…

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Christangirl 4 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 11 months ago (24 minutes after post)

It would me too just do something before something really bad happens and your welcome

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bandrai 10 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 11 months ago (25 minutes after post)

yeah thats right!…can i ask where you’re from?

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Christangirl 4 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 11 months ago (28 minutes after post)

I would rather not say on the internet but why do you want to know

Help me with: I dont get it I am in one mood for a minute and the next I am felling awful i dont understand what could it be?

bandrai 10 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 11 months ago (32 minutes after post)

…Cause I…well what I really want to ask you…is that…Do you know how I can take a scholarship/sponsorship for studying abroad…?

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Christangirl 4 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 11 months ago (33 minutes after post)

no I dont I have to get off now

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bandrai 10 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 11 months ago (35 minutes after post)

ow ok…thanks anyway! you really helped me a lot! i hope I would be able to talk to you again
someday…

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Christangirl 4 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 11 months ago (36 minutes after post)

thanks bye

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Janeen38200 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 11 months ago (1 hour, 57 minutes after post)

I do understand how that feels to be suffocated by a parent. However, I am a mother now and I know understand why my parents were so strict. By your friends parents being so strict, will probably help her, although she may not view that right now, it would be better for your friend in the long run. I take it that your friend is a female. Young females are always wanting to do things that are not always safe. It is a bad, bad world out there, and the parent is doing her job by protecting her daughter, because she loves her. I was not that protected, and therefore bad things happened to me that I carry with me and will carry with me for the rest of my life. I wish I would have listened to my mom. And now, my mom has passed, so I no longer have her in my life. We really never know how we would feel about such a tragedy, until it happens. Now everything she said to me I think back on now. I miss her more than I could express. Tell your friend to hug her mother and to thank God that she has one.

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