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I really really hurt my girlfriends feelings, please help me fix this…
My girlfriend and I have been together a long time and we’re both 16 (actually I’m not quite 16 but almost) and we want to eventually get married so we are taking the physical aspect of our relationship at a relatively slower pace than most couples in our age group. We both are mature for our age and maintain a “Straight-Edge” way of life.
This night, My Girlfriend and I were kissing and without any pre-meditated intention, exceeded the normal borders of our physical relationship…….. It was completely on accident, I feel terrible making her feel uncomfortable with me…….. Additionally, last week I pushed too much not for anything new but for a kiss. Despite my girlfriend saying “No” because of certain reasons (fully and totally certifiable reasons that I would just not like to go into on the internet) I still asked.
Anyone who can help me please do, this is tearing me up, I hate myself for this, I completely hate myself. I’m not a very pushy guy and I’m really really patient when it comes to taking it slow with the physical stuff, I’m extremely close to my Girlfriends family and I feel like I’ve hurt them all by doing this…….. We haven’t progressed physically in six months. My Girlfriend is so hurt by this, please help me……….
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