depressed help: I am worthless. - Help.com

If you are contemplating suicide, hurting yourself, or you are seriously depressed: please, seek professional help!

Call this hotline (1-800-273-8255) operated by our friends at the
Suicide Prevention Lifeline, anytime, for free, professional, and
confidential assistance. While other Help.com users are likely to reply
to your post, please make sure you understand that your use of Help.com
falls under our TOS.

Note: I’m a robot that the Help.com staff created. If this response is in error, I apologize, please ignore it.

i just want to let you know that you are not alone, i can relate to a lot of this. the longer you remain the way you are, the harder it will be too get out of this or bring about change. i think that a start could be to change your outlook and try not to focus or care about those around you. work hard and practice doing what you need to do for yourself.

being lazy and hiding in your room will not help in feeling any better, it will only make matters worse. try to focus on your goals and what you have to change to achieve them, make a list, and go for it. once you achieve it, you’ll feel motivated to continue.

i hope that some of this helps. good luck.

hi:
i am so touched by your post. I feel the same. do not think I can help but by looking for help I have found out there are so many people in pain, whay is that?
Is it becouse we are constantly bombarded by noice of media? telling us how imperfect, old, fat and so on we are?how ugly and wrong, how unqualified, unloved?
why can we just be happy to be in this beautiful earth ? and be alive? when did we forget about mornings? how did this happen?
I have been thinking of ways to end my life, but the truth is I want to live, and I am afraid to change live what i call my home, or my husband, I feel unwanted, but I am wrong. there are people who need me, I just need to not be afraid and make that change. Iin compasion for whoever you are, ther is a reason why we are here, and trhat is life and love. be nice to yourself.

hi ultraviolet
thanks a lot, you helped me more than you believe, I’m still having a tough time trying to get my life back on track. I want to live too, but I don’t honestly believe anybody needs me, next to my parents, and even they have my younger brother to rely on, lord knows he’s a lot more reliable than I am. I really want to change my outlook on life, I want to be like everybody else, but I don’t know how. I’m always so tired and helpless. In fact, I only read your post because I came back to this site to post more of my nonsense. After reading your post though, I was really comforted that there was someone who could relate to me, even though I’m so worthless. Thanks a lot for your encouragement, I think I’ll be able to stick around for a while more because of it.

Hi solofoli:
you asre worthy!!!!!!!!!!!!!simply because you are alive! that means sometrhing, start beleving that you are wothy because you are. I also have been feling pretty awful but I am looking for help, this time I am talking to differnt agencies,not taking no for an aswer. have the courage to believe in yoursel and your dreams, be greatful for who you are, acept and forgive yoursewls, you will find a way,as far as your studies are going do not listen to negative people, they do not count and if that carreer is making you unhappy keep looking for what could make you proud and happy. you have also helped me. love yourself, keep the faith and walk away from the people and things that are hurting you

To
lollercopte
How dare you say that!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
who do you think you are?
telling someonde who is unhappy to end his life
yoiu are not a good person

hey, you are worthy!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! people araund you behave like pricks. do not give tjhem the power to tell you who you are.
you choose.
those people who make you feel like crap, get them out of your life, including your husband. we get husbands and wifes so we can come home to a nice enviroment after dealing with all the nasties of work and life in general, be happy, **** all the rest life is short. stand up for yourself.