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i went out with my really close mates sister behind

her back, we both knew it was wrong but carried on seeing each other, we were together for about 2 months after which i broke it off, we were both ok with it and knew it was not really going to happen. I did miss her and she missed me to and we were both talking to each other like we were still together, then all of a sudden, one drunken night i rang her up and was a proper dickhead to her, said some really horrible things to her, the worsts thing u could say. she has asked me to not talk to her again and leave her alone (she removed me from Facebook, msn etc) and she given me the i hate u speech. I need to explain to her that i didnt mean what i said and it was just out of anger, frustration with not being with her i guess. I know we aint going to get back together and im cool with that. but i came across as a complete ****** that night and have been feeling so bad ( cos i really aint and eveyone get angery with a person they care for), ive tried ringing her but she aint answering my calls? i just want to explain to her what happend etc? i dont know if i can EVER get her talking to me again!? and i know it a bit of ******* manvoure going out with your mates sisters, but this s**t happens. what should i do??! can i even recover from this?? or will i forever be a**hole in her eyes (and i have to see her at her sisters wedding)

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An Unknown Location | 8 months ago (3 hours, 43 minutes after post)

wow i went through a very similar situation. if you really like the girl then tell your friend the situation and if he trusts you hell probly give you permission to date her or w.e. Doing this will let her know you really like her enough to risk ******* up ur friendship.

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An Unknown Location | 8 months ago (1 day, 2 hours after post)

you should tell your friend about it and see if they can talk to their sister and explain what happend for you and then she might forgive you

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