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I’ve never felt so alone before.


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Neutra offline Verified User (4 years, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 years, 4 months ago (4 minutes after post)

Now you know he didn’t really mean that right, people say things they don’t mean all the time. He could just be going through something right now and has to take out his anger, it’s unfortunate that you had to hear him say that to you but just understand that he has personal reasons.

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SingerInPurple offline Verified User (4 years, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 years, 4 months ago (11 minutes after post)

Neutra wrote:
Now you know he didn’t really mean that right, people say things they don’t mean all the time. He could just be going through something right now and has to take out his anger, it’s unfortunate that you had to hear him say that to you but just understand that he has personal reasons.

He’s wallowing in self pity. Like seriously, I have sh*t going on too, but I don’t say things like that to him. He sucks. he should have never had children. But i guess you’re right in a way…

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Neutra offline Verified User (4 years, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 years, 4 months ago (14 minutes after post)

Something I forgot to mention, right now he could feel the same way you do, and he could express his feeling differently which is why he did it. Have you spoken with him about it. Next time you speak with him and get him to listen, he may ammitt that he wasn’t serious.

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SingerInPurple offline Verified User (4 years, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 years, 4 months ago (33 minutes after post)

Neutra wrote:
Something I forgot to mention, right now he could feel the same way you do, and he could express his feeling differently which is why he did it. Have you spoken with him about it. Next time you speak with him and get him to listen, he may ammitt that he wasn’t serious.

I know he wasn’t serious, but I really don’t need this right now. I don’t want to go into details right now, but basically almost everything I knew..everything I loved changed or went away, and right now is when I need my family. United we stand, divided we fall. I’m too tired to fight with him, so I just won’t talk to him. Thank you for your insight, though, I appreciate it

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Neutra offline Verified User (4 years, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 years, 4 months ago (36 minutes after post)

Alright, not right now at the moment. But maybe in time, when things cool down alittle.

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Anny offline Verified User (3 years, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 years, 4 months ago (3 days, 3 hours after post)

SingerInPurple wrote:
basically almost everything I knew..everything I loved changed or went away, and right now is when I need my family. United we stand, divided we fall. I’m too tired to fight with him, so I just won’t talk to him.

Been there. My heart is with you.

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SingerInPurple offline Verified User (4 years, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 years, 4 months ago (3 days, 19 hours after post)

Anny wrote:

SingerInPurple wrote:
basically almost everything I knew..everything I loved changed or went away, and right now is when I need my family. United we stand, divided we fall. I’m too tired to fight with him, so I just won’t talk to him.

Been there. My heart is with you.

I always have my help.com family, haha. Thank you Anny.

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小苍苍 offline Verified User (3 years, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 3 years, 4 months ago (6 days, 6 hours after post)

really that happens to almost everyone. well, dads just always have such high expectations don’t they? really i always have the thought that one day when i get a job and can live on my own, i just won’t go and see him anymore, and won’t give him any money when he’s old, out of work and helpless. but really, all dads all parents do love their children… it’s just a ‘bad mood’ or ‘bad temper’ or those ‘dad’ thing >3 . do hope you and your dad can well get all friendly and get reconciled. well even if he’s not so nice to you he is still your dad^^

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SingerInPurple offline Verified User (4 years, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 years, 4 months ago (1 week, 4 days after post)

小苍苍 wrote:
well even if he’s not so nice to you he is still your dad^^

Thanks man, I’m good now. My Dad’s always been a bit moody, whatever.

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I’ve never felt so alone before.

I can’t sleep, but I have to wake up in like 8 hours…

I don’t think people know how much they can impact someone else. Take my father, he said “I hate you” to me yesterday and I that was it. I just I hate him too. It’s funny because 3 years ago, he meant everything to me, but now he’s just a grumpy old man. I think it’s my mother’s fault sometimes. I want to go back or skip forward so that I can be anywhere but here.

This is it. I’ve had it. Ok. I need to talk to someone…

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