Love help: ok so, my fiance, well gf now is about to leave me and take her - Help.com

izenstrkEd
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ok so, my fiance, well gf now is about to leave me

and take her kids with her, im attached to all three, and dont know what to do, i love all of them more than anything in this world, but her and i jus cant seam to get along. Im looking for a last chance idea here… help!

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mattlegirl23 offline Verified User (6 years, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 6 years, 4 months ago (2 minutes after post)

ask if u can visit or babysit
haha i know but u love them right try to compromise

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Help me with: ahh!
izenstrkEd offline Verified User (6 years, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 6 years, 4 months ago (3 minutes after post)

i live with them now and she wants to move her and the girls away, i dont wanna live somewhere where i dont wake up to them anymore, ive given this my everything, my all, and if its not enough, then what do i have left?

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Help me with: hey, anyone wanna vent?
2BHelpful offline Verified User (6 years, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Southwick, MA, US | 6 years, 4 months ago (2 hours, 11 minutes after post)

I had a similar situation several years ago. I don’t know how long you have been together, but for me, in time I felt better. Breaking up can be very stressful for everyone involved, including the children. Perhaps you could try explaining to her how you feel, and that the children feel the same. If she still refuses to let you visit, maybe you could stay in touch with them via mail, email, telephone, etc.?

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Help me with: I just wanted to thank you all for your prayers.

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