I hate everything in my life, im confused on why im on this earth, and i feel like a burdon on my family.
And I dont know how to find myself, who the real me is. I wish I knew all the answers but I dont. Im a failure whose flunking school, and might be sent to a girls home. Please help. I dont know what to do.
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How old are you? What do you hate most?
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I’m sorry to hear you are feeling this way, it is not your fault.
By reading your post I think you are still quite young, you will find yourself in time and the older you get the less you’ll worry about where you fit in on this earth.
If you’re sent to a girls’ school, this is your parents problem, not yours. I was sent to a boarding school and believe only weak parents send their children away as they can’t be bothered to deal with the issues.
Stick in there, enjoy your hobbies - if you haven’t got any, find out what you like to do and DO it - it will take your mind off it.
Or you could try and read some nice books about successful women to inspire you.
Perhaps also watch some films with the same subject: strong and successful women, it will give you a role model and somebody to look up to.
Why not try Amazon first, you could start here: http://www.amazon.com/s/ref=nb_ss_gw/…
Hope it helps!
I hate my life. What is God good for ? I became a Diabetic type 1 at the age of 20. I’m 41 years of age and my life has been one failure after another. Even before the diabetes my life was a failure. I have been through a a coma a divorce because of my diabetes. I’m currently on federal disability because of my diabetes. My drivers license was taken because of my diabetes. I have a thirteen year old princess I hardly even know. People tell me you should be thankful they are others worst off I do not buy into this type of thinking I should be glad because some other poor soul is worst off than me that is sick. God does not answer prayers or help anyone that is just not so. Look at Samson, Moses, and Job who because the almighty was boasting loss everything and was tormented endlessly sure he got more back after old and tired. What is God good for ? Trust and knock the door will be open ask and you will receive. Believe that and without no doubt you will live deceived in hope and faith with no reward or reply. In the next life what life is that, I can imagine it but I can also imagine $1,000,000 or my life next to my princess but that will be as real as it will get. They are no miracles and I have learned to believe in pain, anguish, and deception. Life why? What is the purpose other than pain and death. What is God good for? Please I humbly and respectfully ask. I do not wish to offend anyone just looking for an honest answer What is GOD good for ?
Jose A. Lugo Jr.
Lugojrjose, if you would like to create your own post and invite us to it we would be happy to help you learn how to help yourself. The reason you do not hear or see God in your life is because you are using your free will to block out any loving guidance that may be coming your way, You sound like you are your own worst enemy and have been most of your life. If you can see this as a distinct possibility in you then you stand a chance at finding happiness. What do you think?
gods will??? That sucks… listen, while you are too busy with god…the rest of the people u know are busy drinking and havign a godo time, and at the same time, are better off then you, as they are better educated etc…thats my problem… i cant be good enough comparing myself to others..its like no matter how humble i bee..its not going to help me, because i see others doing well in education etc…and still enjoying by drinking..what am i doing….im being a good person…not doing anythin..but feel so depressed that im behind everyone in education…my life sux…. i feel so tired thesedays..i dotn know what i am meant to do…
life craap getover it
I feel the samee wayy..((breakingkat10.))
I feel likee everyone hates me,im ugly,fat,and stupid.
I just wish that I could just findd myself so I could just live my life,like everyone else does :/
Your not hated it is a lie so stop telling yourself that if you will just start speaking to people they will speak back to you. You are a nice person with faults just like the rest of us but you need to start believing that.
You’re not ugly - real/true beauty comes from within who want to have a pretty face and a bad character, and have no one like them, not me
You’re not fat - whatever your weight is be healthy, exercise and eat right if you are sure your overweight then start an exercise plan along with a good healthy eating plan.
You’re not stupid - you might not have letters after your name, or any qualification, but these don’t make you intelligent, common sense counts, practical help matters most, being a friend that listens is a gift, be that gift of encouragement, hope, and joy to others around you. If you want to go back to school do it start where your comfortable and don’t be embarrassed your not in competition with anyone, just be you remember your a lovely person.
Your not lost, your here born at a particular time for a particular reason, what do you most like doing, what makes you smile don’t be afraid, start there and the rest will follow.
Live your life be a blessing you are special -x-
Yes your so so right. I believe we must love and respect ourselfs and others will follow.
You shouldnt let people bring you down it is not worth it. I think when we think negative we percieve the world as being negative and people can respond to that…. what you must do is love yourself, be brave and turn every negative feeling nto a positive one. If you feel really uncomfortable with how you look then find hobbies that you enjoy, such as fitness classes as they can help us to loose wieght and build our confidence at the same time….
But no matter what donot let negativity in your life, this is not godly and you are gods child
i hate everything about myself…:(
my life sux
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