I am in a relationship with this girl that i’ve met lately(less than a month) after a really long time. - Help.com

I am in a relationship with this girl that i’ve met lately(less than a month) after a really long time.

But everytime i call her i feel like i dont have anything to say, which is really bothering me.
what should i do?

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..Minerva.. offline Verified User (3 years, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 32 #
An Unknown Location | 3 years, 4 months ago (1 minute after post)

Simple. Just ask heaps of questions and keep her talking. She’ll never know that you don’t know how to make conversation :)

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Dr. Ralph offline Verified User (4 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 3 years, 4 months ago (12 minutes after post)

Quit calling her and call people you enjoy talkng to.

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An Unknown Location | 3 years, 4 months ago (15 minutes after post)

Dr. Ralph wrote:
Quit calling her and call people you enjoy talkng to.

I enjoy calling her, but i am not sure why i cant think of anything to talk about or ask her or …

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An Unknown Location | 3 years, 4 months ago (18 minutes after post)

Because you’re a guy, that’s to be expected.

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An Unknown Location | 3 years, 4 months ago (20 minutes after post)

what do you mean?

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An Unknown Location | 3 years, 4 months ago (33 minutes after post)

Most guys don’t like talking on the phone for extended periods of time, other than the typical how are you, what’s up, see you later.

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NeoBahamut offline Verified User (3 years, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 3 years, 3 months ago (1 week after post)

Abba Zabba wrote:
Most guys don’t like talking on the phone for extended periods of time, other than the typical how are you, what’s up, see you later.

Yep, abba’s right, its been proven, guys will talk less on the phone because we are men, we don’t gossip like women do and go on and on about nothing, we like facts, details and making plans. girls just talk in general, it’s a social thing for women, they need to get thier fix. I think you could be a lone wolf in a one man wolf pack buddy. Just ask her questions that don’t sound pre planned, and use inferences and tones to mimic interest in what she is saying. she will just be stoked that you listened so well.

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