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can i make the pain that i feel go away


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strapher offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 8 months ago (14 minutes after post)

If it’s emotional pain, then the old cliche may help, if you can somehow just be aware that it is true:
That old cliche is: “Time heals” and it’s something you can usually count on too. In time, your emotions always change. From good to bad and from bad to good. Time is your friend in this case.

Unless there is someone close to you that knows the exact nature of your pain and can maybe say something to you that would help, this is the only truth I can offer.

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strapher offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 8 months ago (19 minutes after post)

Just an extra thought, … if the emotional pain has a source i.e feeling awful because you lost your job or something, as opposed to mourning the loss of a loved one which you can’t do anything about, then of course eliminating the cause would be the first step I took.

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Lostmyself offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
US | 1 year, 8 months ago (55 minutes after post)

this pain is emotional and i dont know how to deal with it cuz i never felt this way. iam so confused about how this so called man that hurt me can do what he did to me, to so many other women, and not care about how we feel.

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San Diego, CA, US | 1 year, 8 months ago (4 hours, 39 minutes after post)

you should never allow anyone else to be the source or your happiness and likewise your pain. try and be the source ofyour happiness then you will never be in for such disappointment.

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Lostmyself offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
US | 1 year, 8 months ago (16 hours, 4 minutes after post)

My true happiness cames from my friends that look up to me for advice. Yet when this guy hurt me i thought that i could not help any one around me cause i felt so down in a hole. But now i see that if i dont help my friends around me who will i go to for help when i need it. thanks.

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