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My Ex boyfriend is a bastard and i have never been more terrified of anyone :(
We were together for 6 months, for the first 2 he was amazing so sweet and kind, just the perfect boyfriend. Then all of a sudden it started to change :/ he became verbally abusive, it got so i had no self confidence what so ever, i couldn’t look myself in the mirror. After a while this got worse, he starting punching me whenever he said i did something wrong, or he was upset or annoyed about something. Though i bruised, he seemed to make sure he would punch me in the stomach or kick me in the legs - areas that were easily covered up :( i was too scared to tell anyone about any of this. This went on for a further 4 months, and then he broke up with me, and moved away with his family.
It took me forever to rebuild myself, i still have some scars on my hip and back from where i was hit. and now i have a new boyfriend, he is so sweet and loving, i’ve been with him for 17 months and 2 weeks and its been going amazingly, no fights or arguments at all.
But n friday i got an email from my ex, telling me how much he loved me, and how he knew he hurt me and that was wrong, and telling me that he’s moving back here for a few months to live with his grandparents. I’m scared all over again :( i’m terrified to leave the house without a group of friends. in work i’ve been on guard all the time in case he comes back. I cant live like this, and there is no way i am going to confront him.
I’ve been talking to my college counsellor i’m 17 so its confidential, though i dont know how much that will span. and before you ask yes i did try to go to the police when the physical abuse first started, showed them the cuts and bruises he gave me, and they told me it wasnt enough evidence to convict him :(
i dont know what to do
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