theres this girl i want to start a relationship with.

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theres this girl i want to start a relationship with.

she says she needs time before we can do that so she can get over her last one first and so she can have some time to herself. how do i go about giving her time and space without pressuring her. i would still like to remain close to her while she gets over her last relationship. do you think this would be possible to do?

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An Undisclosed Location | 3 years, 3 months ago (3 minutes after post)

Don’t be too close while the healing process is happening, you’ll get friendzoned for sure.

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3 years, 3 months ago (31 minutes after post)

There are millions of women out there. Just remember, You’re the prize, go out and have a good time and let her have her space, if shes into you, she’ll come around. Dont attach yourself to the bad feelings of her ex, she will friendzone you like douce said, not to mention there is no reason to stop yourself to meet someone else who is more stable, hotter, friendlier, smarter, etc. Remember, you’re the **** trophy here, so let her figure it out, and if she does and you are still willing and available, then give it a go. If you’re not available, her loss.

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An Undisclosed Location | 3 years, 3 months ago (4 hours, 7 minutes after post)

um well i think that you should just ask her to do something?
but tell her really whats up when your asking her to do something
like that you know she needs time to get over her ex but you would like to be there for her, make sure you tell her that you do have feelings for her that are more then a friend but your willing to just remain friends and you just want to be there for her through all this and you can see what will happen later on..
take her bowling or rock climing?
nothing to date like? prolly not a movie or that.. unless she mentions that there is a movie that she wants to go to
and if she does do that?
suprise her with movie tickets?
just dont push it? show her not all guys will hurt her and when she see that your the guy thats been there for her
you will only become closer with her..
i hope things work out

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