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i dont know,but i know that i’m 19 and i have never ever kissed anyone!!…
nope, only realized today TBH lols…I can’t say we’ve had chance, but its like, I kiss her on the cheek when we walk along(granted not an easy task, but doable)
It sounds like she used to kiss you but doesn’t anymore. If this is the case do you try to kiss her? Kissing is a very important part of a relationship so if you haven’t you should try kissing her. You can also ask her directly if this is something you want or need. If these things don’t work and things don’t change, perhaps you have drifted apart and need to consider separating for some time.
Is not interested in intimacy?
we used to kiss, and its like…we’ve been together(well….we got together 4 months ago, but only really been Boyfriend and Girlfriend for a month) and well…she’s buissy every night with her disitation, or just tired because she’s been working in labs or lectures from 9-5/6(as she is every day, exept weekends). I don’t want to ask her, because its like I wouldn’t feel right :( I don’t ant to seperate from her, because I know, if I do, we won’t get back together :( I need her more than she needs me :(
Try leaving her love letters letting her know how much you care.
I think what is happening is alright. Be supportive and hang in there she’ll come around.
of course I’ll stick in there, as I said I need her more than she could ever need me :( I’ll always support her too :) I tell her everyday how much I like her, but…I’m not ready to say that I love her, I do, don’t get me wrong, I’m just not ready to say it to her :( I felt like saying it all day today, when I was with her, but I couldn’t bring myself to saying it :(
of course I like her more than she like me, but, that doesn’t mean we’re not ment to be. That doesn’t mean we need to go on a break. If we did, we wouldn’t see eah other ever, she’s a 3rd year, I’m a first. if we went on a break, we’d never get back together
yeah kid… I know how it is… You just need to be patient and keep on keeping on…
I have also been in this situation and when its all over the other person will be grateful that you stuck around and beared with them during their metamorphosis ;)
I would always stick by her side
through anythin and everythin :)
just because she is stressed, or busy, or tired, doesn’t mean that its just fine that she doesn’t kiss you at all. and if she’s not showing you some little affection quite often then it might mean that, yeah, you do have more feeling for her than she does for you.
even if i’m busy trying to save the world i’m going to let my boyfriend know how much he means to me whenever i can.
Basically, when you really like/love/whatever someone you do want to show it, and you will make time to do just that.
You’re doing that, right? and if you weren’t doing that for a girl wouldn’t it just mean you aren’t THAT into her?
if she’s busy dealing with something else, then you should get busy with something else. if she comes around, ok. if not, well, consider taking a break.
i know it sounds like the most painful thing in the world right now, BUT i think it would be the best choice. time heals all. and you definitely need more in your life than just a lady love anyway…plus, it makes you more attractive ;)
we go out every weekend, and have a meal with each other, or go out for a drink, or other stuff, its just in the week, she’s had a buissy day, and needs to do her disitation. We see each other every lunch, we hold hands, and put our arm around each other…its just she’s said she finds it hard to tell people how she feels about them :( its like I say “I really like you”(I would say love, but I don’t want to open my heart, and have it ripped out…if you know what I mean) but she just replyes with a random sound(well…its not really a random sound, its like, you know how teenagers between the age of 13-17 talk through grunts, but with a word, like “rawr” or “yam” or “groul groul”) and its like does that mean somethin?
well if she hasnt kissed u..maybe you should make the first move? and see hw it goes
It means she is either not into you, or has been busy kissing someone else on their lips or their…you know what and she is afraid you might taste and pick it up lol, or it means she is not ready to get emotionally attached to you because she is still a child.
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