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Does a kiss on the cheek mean anything?
Let me give you some details of the situation: yesterday, me (a guy) and someone who I’d consider to be a close friend (a girl) were talking about people flirting and afterward, she randomly and unexpectedly gives me a kiss on the cheek. It really caught me off guard and even made me blush a little, which caused her to giggle when she noticed.
So, given what we’d just discussed and the fact that she had no reason for the kiss, it makes me think she was trying to give me a hint, like maybe she likes me as more than just a friend.
There’s a problem though (of course there is or else I wouldn’t even posting this probably, would I?): she’s got a boyfriend, who I believe she’s happy with. And I absolutely refuse to mess around with her while she’s with him.
I really, really, really, REALLY hope she does have feelings for me, because I definitely do for her and have for a few years now. I told her once too and she rejected me, but we remained friends and I’ve managed to keep said feelings to myself since then.
Despite how much I believe she wants me now, I’m not getting my hopes up just yet. I think I’ll just play it cool for now and see if she says/does anything else like that in the next few days.
Thoughts? Opinions? Advice?
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