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Does it mean anything when a girl says “what are you doing tonight?
I (male) started a new college course and there is this shy girl in my class that i am slowly falling for.
A couple of people i have asked about this reckoned that was a come on (one of them being a distant cousin who has kids & is shy herself, so i’d like to think she knows what she is talking about).
..I replied, to the girl, ‘nothing much, probably just some homework’, i asked her back and she said the same and that was that. I couldn’t help wondering quite soon after if i should have suggested we go do something, a coffee or whatever. Which is why i asked a couple of people about it.
This girl is really sweet, she’s quiet and has the loveliest voice. We’ve talked a reasonable amount, probably most notably chatting over lunch break a couple of Thursdays ago (but we’ve chatted since then obviously).
We’re only at college 2 days a week; Tues & Thurs. She asked me this question on Tues and i had planned to ask her it back on Thurs but she wasn’t in.
I know it is hard to comment on such a thing but nevertheless i wouldn’t mind hearing some opinions, esp. from shy girls out there.
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