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I’m so confused me ex is still here…

So my ex fiance came back after breaking up with me a week ago. Then we talked she decided to stay until the end of the month when our lease is up originally she was staying at a friends. Here’s the catch since coming back we hve been affectionate to each other holding hands, we did you know what twice just as “break up” being the reason. Now were sleeping in the same bed again we cuddled but tonight no you know what. So basically she also still gives me a look that look you get one someone is in love. But its been weird we go through periods of fighting too a lot of it seems for fun and we will be laughing in the middle of it. She has said “this is the weirdest breakup ever” cuZ of all of the relationship things we still do. But at the same time she has said there is no chance for us in the future. Right now I’m certain were both moving out but is this whole thing a good sign or what??? Help!!!

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tashy offline Verified User (3 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 3 years, 2 months ago (1 hour, 10 minutes after post)

you two love each other but you are both trying ignore it.You should get to sit down and talk about what she wants and what you want seriously because when you don’t have each other you never find the some replacement and you will get hurt.so its a good sign but use it wisely

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korwinn offline Verified User (3 years, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 years, 2 months ago (3 hours, 20 minutes after post)

is everything you two have been through holding you together? I just mean the fact that you have been together and friends so long, that it’s making this “friendly” than it is even though your relationship is over?

I don’t know if its a good sign. Like it could just be that you are still safe to her, but she doesn’t want to be with you

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An Unknown Location | 2 years, 10 months ago (4 months after post)

i think love means alot in a relationship but it is never everything. i always want to think love means everything but it just doesnt. and if she is telling you its not going anywhere. believe her. ive had a very similar situation in the past and i kept holding on to it believing and hoping that things would change and that we would eventually get back to that place where there was only love. it didnt work out for me. he constantly told me it wasnt gonna work but i still hoped. keep trying cause in the end if it doesnt work, at least you can say you tried. and if it does work, then it was always meant to be. as long as you are happy that is all that matters. try to find a way to be happy with each other for now and see where it goes but seriously from my personal experience, if someone is telling you there is no chance in the future.. they usually mean it. sorry to say that because it always hurts when the person you love doesnt want to be with you but you need to love yourself first and be happy in life. find someone who makes you happy and who wants to be with you as much or more than you want to be with them, whether its the girl youre with now or not.

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