pregnant help: I just found out that i’m pregnant and don’t know if i should keep the baby?

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I just found out that i’m pregnant and don’t know if i should keep the baby?

my parents won'’t accept me if I have the baby and I really don’t know wat to do. I’m already at 9 weeks and really don’t know wat to do could you please help me wat is the right decision?

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An Unknown Location | 3 years, 8 months ago (3 weeks, 4 days after post)

you should keep the baby then she will grow up and never know her real parents

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Gamla Stan, 26, SE | 3 years, 8 months ago (3 weeks, 5 days after post)

No one in the world can TELL you the right answer. That’s a decision that YOU must make. There are lots of opinions and things to consider, but in the end it’s your choice.

Can you raise the child? Will you love them? Can you live with your parents rejection, if that happens? What about the father? What will his role in this childs life be? Could you carry through and give the child up for adoption? Can you live with the having an abortion?

I assume you are young (hence the parents issue) so I would HIGHLY recommend you seak professional counsel. If nothing else, sneak off to an abortion clinic and talk to them. Part of their job is to help you make the decision — remember that even for them abortion is the last option. They’ll give you all the others, things to read, someone to talk to, and a good head on your shoulders so you can make this decision.

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An Unknown Location | 3 years, 4 months ago (5 months, 3 weeks after post)

You must belivie in yourself, and that what ever you decide it, will be right. Can you turly tell yourself that you are ready to have a child. Give up everything in the past and look only at the furture, and the furture is that child, growing inside of you. Can you provide a safe, reliable, stable, loving home.
If you become homeless, who can you turn to, who will you be able to tell without them passing judgement, but giving advice and helping you in your time of need.

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An Unknown Location | 3 years, 3 months ago (5 months, 3 weeks after post)

congrads! you should keep your baby if you dont youll regreat it. as for your parents they will always keep loving you no matter what you do. good luck

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An Unknown Location | 3 years, 3 months ago (6 months, 2 weeks after post)

you should keep the baby. you will regret it. when i thought i was pregnant everybody told me that i should get an abortion or give it up for a adoption. i refussed because i didnt want that kid to grow up and not know me or its father. i never did get pregnant and me and my bf have been trying for a year.
your best bet is to keep the baby. your state could help you with baby clothes a carrier you could get on foodstamps or WIC
if you have money go to a goodwill or thrift stores and get baby stuff they have alot of cheap stuff and alot of it is brand new. let me know what happens
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Iola, KS, US | 3 years, 2 months ago (6 months, 3 weeks after post)

How old are you? What do you mean by keeping the baby? Do you mean you want to have and raise the baby, or do you mean you are considering abortion or adoption? If you are considering abortion, I strongly recommend that you not do that. I did a report on it in my college speech course last year, and believe me, you DON’T want to go there, no matter how nice some people and organizations make it sound. Your baby either has, or is very close to having, things like brainwaves,a heartbeat, and get this, fingerprints. That’s how fully formed your baby is! That child deserves a fair chance at life, and shouldn’t have to pay for your actions, or your parents selfishness or lack of support (or whatever it may be). They may just need time, or a glimpse of that precious bundle of joy, aka their grandchild. So I suggest that you have and raise the child or have the child and put him/her up for adoption. Visit www.lovematters.com/women or prolife.com (graphic video, don’t watch if you are not 18 and have a strong stomach).

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An Unknown Location | 3 years, 1 month ago (7 months, 3 weeks after post)

i had a baby at 13 n now she iz 2. she so cute n i adore her. i never even thought of abortion. keep it id say. my baby dad left me to bring her up on me own bt i was lucky as i had my family n lotz of support. gd luck hun zoe xxx

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Chicago, IL, US | 1 year, 11 months ago (1 year, 9 months after post)

Did everything turn out alright?

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