How can I get to know this girl better without coming on too strong?
There’s this girl in my sociology class who I’ve always had my eye on more or less since the first week of class and I made it my goal to talk to her.
I finally had the guts to walk up to her one day and introduce myself and find out her name. Since then, we sit next to each other in class and occasionally strike up a conversation. And after class we walk together and talk about the past weekend or whatever.
I asked if she wanted to get lunch after class but she has another class right after.
So what am I to do? I was thinking of asking her more or less “Hey, I know you have philosophy right after but could I get your number so we can get lunch and hang out sometime?”
Is that good and to the point?
I want to clarify that I legitimately want to get to know her better. I mean our conversations don’t extend past talking about class or our weekends. I know I can make her laugh, I just want it out of a setting that I can only talk to her for 2 minutes at a time.
But is asking for her number and asking to get lunch too pushy? I don’t want this to be interpreted as a date and she would run off and think I’m creepy.
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