Love help: its happening, my girlfriend is on the edge of breaking up with me i just think she doesnt know how to. - Help.com

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its happening, my girlfriend is on the edge of breaking up with me i just think she doesnt know how to.

i dont want to be the one because i still love her. i said i always would but if she continues this “im going to find away to never talk to you” attitude idk whats going to happen.

darnit, everything always happens to me! i dont know what im going to do now, she was holding me up from falling. im already starting to flunk most of my classes, and i have exams this whole week i think from wednesday to friday.

the only thing i want is to be friends and for her to talk to me =[
and i know that it would be possible because its not like she hates me or i did something wrong. shes a year younger than me making her in 8′th grade and i guess shes still at the stage where she doenst know who she truely likes.

which is why i wish she still talks to me, because once she does become better knowing on whats going on, she will most likely come back to me.

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karibasi offline Verified User (2 years, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
Austin, TX, US | 2 years, 10 months ago (2 hours after post)

You’re a freshmen and your acting like a girl is your life? And she’s in 8th grade? From my views, too young for her to take a relationship seriously or act maturely in one. You need to be a man and not let women be the foundation of your life. But to answer you now, just talk to her and try for both of you to open up.

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\m/ metal fiend \m/ offline Verified User (3 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
US | 2 years, 10 months ago (9 hours, 57 minutes after post)

yeah… i know, its just i sent her this longgg message saying what went wrong last night because shes not talking to me like at all, and it said she read the message, but she never replied to it, or anything i said. and its just the fact of her not talking to me that feels like crap. especially since i didnt do anything wrong, i wish shed just come to realize that she can talk to me and ill be fine with it.

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karibasi offline Verified User (2 years, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
Austin, TX, US | 2 years, 10 months ago (11 hours, 5 minutes after post)

No, not messages, in person. Just grab her and throw her against the wall (Not literally ;)) and then ask her, that way she can’t bs her way through questions like she could over the phone.

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\m/ metal fiend \m/ offline Verified User (3 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
US | 2 years, 10 months ago (13 hours, 29 minutes after post)

well since im 1 grade ahead of her, she goes to a middle school and i dont, but i guess the next time i have the chance when im round her house i will.

f_*k this is gettin to my mind im gettin drivin crazy!

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aasoftballbabe4 offline Verified User (2 years, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 10 months ago (5 days, 11 hours after post)

to be honest, i think maybe she is just scared. ya she might be in that stage where she thinks that she shouldnt be tied down and just go out and have fun but if you really like someone you would stick with them. well if she is gonna break up with you,tell her how you feel and let her know what’s up. if she tells you why you guys are breaking up then maybe its for the best or you guys can work it out.
wish you the best.

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krisy110 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (2 years, 7 months after post)

Seriously you are wayyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy to young to take a relationship so seriously! You need to chill out and just live life! Don’t force the girl to do anything she does not want to do. Just leave her alone. Maybe she does not want to be with u. It’s sad to say and i’m sorry but it’s the truth! Let her go. Let her be free. You will find someone else. Life goes on. Life is a ***** but you have to be a bigger ***** inorder to survive!

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